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Relocating - Trans* Friendly Destinations

Started by Madeline182, February 11, 2015, 02:19:07 AM

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Madeline182

High there peeps,

I am ready to get out of Texas, and was curious as to where the ideal state or area is in the US for a trans transwoman like myself to move to?  Seattle is on the top of my list, but I would like to expand my target to speed up the relocation process.

Any suggestions or tips would be greatly appreciated. 
I'm open to any questions as well.  Pm me or respond and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.

Thanks!
Maddie
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Yazoo

Minneapolis, MN seems like a rather open place for LGBT people, and its cheaper to live at than Washinston state, just my two cents. Thats where Wiscon happens, which is having larger and larger trans presence each year, and where several trans-friendly healthcare services are located. And of course Canada is just around the corner.
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Madeline182

That is tempting, and the cost of living is a def a plus.   
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Muffinheart

Quote from: Madeline182 on February 11, 2015, 02:19:07 AM
High there peeps,

I am ready to get out of Texas, and was curious as to where the ideal state or area is in the US for a trans transwoman like myself to move to?  Seattle is on the top of my list, but I would like to expand my target to speed up the relocation process.

Any suggestions or tips would be greatly appreciated. 
I'm open to any questions as well.  Pm me or respond and I'll get back to you as soon as I can.

Thanks!
Maddie
While I live in Canada, I have been to 34 US states. If I had to pick one, I'd move to Oregon. Portland is a cool town, plus Oregon begins funding surgeries.
If you're lucky enough to move to Canada, 5 provinces fund surgeries...but as much as I like where I live, it isn't a "cool" place, just frickin cold
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sonson

well what do you want to do for a living? you should pick somewhere thats not only trans friendly, but also good for your career
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suzifrommd

I live in central Maryland. People here are very accepting.
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antonia

My vote would also be Portland, low cost of living, very liberal and open minded, filled with young people, great nature and outdoors.

Quote from: Muffinheart on February 11, 2015, 04:47:00 AM
While I live in Canada, I have been to 34 US states. If I had to pick one, I'd move to Oregon. Portland is a cool town, plus Oregon begins funding surgeries.
If you're lucky enough to move to Canada, 5 provinces fund surgeries...but as much as I like where I live, it isn't a "cool" place, just frickin cold
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DragonBeer

You might want to narrow your search to the West Coast.
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Dierdre Lenore

Denver is a very open town, though cost of living is going up. I think due to legalizing pot and the sudden surge in the population.
Work it in to work it out!

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Madeline182

Lots of great input, thank you!
I agree, the East coast doesn't have much to offer me. 
I'm actively looking for a carrer in the medicinal herb industry, of the green variety. 

Oregon funding surgeries?!?  I will be looking that up asap!!! ty!

Canada would be amazing!  I wouldn't hessitate to move there... Some day..  ...Do we know where the ideal European nation would be?  I've been pondering Denmark and Switzerland.   Just thinking bigger picture c:  I'm feeling very trapped here I Texas  :/
-Dead or Alive <3
[Chorus]
"Isn't it a pity that I'm not the prettiest girl in the world, sometimes I feel when I kick up my heels in the sun,
I'm the loveliest one."



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spacerace

I moved from Austin to Seattle after growing up in TX. It was a very good decision. Tons of trans resources. If people are weird to me at least there is some social pressure to not be obvious about it, whereas in TX the opposite would be true.

The rain is not bad at all, the winter is the exact same as it is in TX, but the summer is fair and beautiful. They don't really have air conditioning anywhere, so that takes some getting used to even when it is not that hot. Conditioned air just feels different than air that has not had the humidity removed. Kinda sticky and gross sometimes.

Also, in TX there is so much land that is cheap, buildings and parking lots are huge. Everything here feels really close together and small.

The only thing I miss is the food. Oh tex-mex, how I love you. Nothing remotely close to it here. Lots of fish. They really like salmon. And good queso is a foreign concept, and there is maybe one breakfast taco place in all of Seattle.

And just saw your other post about the green - you would not believe how la de da people are about here. Almost like craft beer with the levels of pretentious surrounding it.  edit: overstated how much it is used here relative to alcohol without thinking - it shows up here all the over the place and tons of people you would not expect to partake do so.
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antonia

Europe is a lot harder than the US or Canada because you will have to get a work permit which is loads of paperwork and stuff, this having been said I'd say you want to know the language or at least plan to learn it.

London UK, very accepting and they all speak English.
Sweden, very very accepting, they all speak English but if you want to stay you will have to learn Swedish
Denmark, also very accepting, not as good as Sweden, most speak English but Danish is a must in the long run.
Switzerland, not bad but you really do need to pick up some German.

Even then, I speak the languages and I'm allowed to live/work there with my passport and citizenship, I still prefer living in Canada :D

Quote from: Madeline182 on February 11, 2015, 11:27:31 AM
Lots of great input, thank you!
I agree, the East coast doesn't have much to offer me. 
I'm actively looking for a carrer in the medicinal herb industry, of the green variety. 

Oregon funding surgeries?!?  I will be looking that up asap!!! ty!

Canada would be amazing!  I wouldn't hessitate to move there... Some day..  ...Do we know where the ideal European nation would be?  I've been pondering Denmark and Switzerland.   Just thinking bigger picture c:  I'm feeling very trapped here I Texas  :/
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awilliams1701

I've actually been shocked that Huntsville, AL has been so good to me. I mean Alabama is the backwards place for dinosaurs to oppose gay marriage even though we have a federal requirement. Yet Huntsville is not really Alabama. I actually saw somewhere that Huntsville itself is in the top 10 cities in the country for LGBT+ support. The biggest downside though is lack of transgender support medically. Everyone here has to go to Atlanta to see an endo. I called one that was accepting patients and they said sure we'll treat you if you have a liver or thyroid condition, but we don't do HRT for transgender people. I'm actually concerned about my next endo visit because my doctor wasn't willing to do a hormone check. I'm concerned I'll have to go back to Atlanta a week after I go to Atlanta since they'll have to do the blood work themselves. Next time I intend to find a place to do it in advance. Maybe if I'm lucky she'll discuss the results over the phone.
Ashley
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FTMax

I know you said you don't see much in the east coast, but DC has been very good to me.
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sonson

Quote from: Madeline182 on February 11, 2015, 11:27:31 AM
Lots of great input, thank you!
I agree, the East coast doesn't have much to offer me. 
I'm actively looking for a carrer in the medicinal herb industry, of the green variety. 
nice! yeah in that case I'd say definitely somewhere on the west coast
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YoungZep

Is Texas really that bad with Trans peeps?

spacerace

Quote from: YoungZep on February 11, 2015, 01:24:10 PM
Is Texas really that bad with Trans peeps?

The issue with TX is that even in the most liberal areas, the people that are liberal were still raised by and large in a very conservative "faith and family" sort of environment. Once they get older and have kids, they tend to revert back to their roots.

Then, once you are outside of a big city, the default position is still that GLB and especially T is still deviant.

For example - If a trans person that did not pass but was obviously trans walked into a store in most parts of TX, the people would laugh out loud and make jokes together about that person after they had left, along with the manager. In Seattle, peer pressure would prevent this, and management would intervene if it happened.
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