With all these threads on coming out to your SO and the varying outcomes of this, it got me to thinking about when I come out to my SO...
Over the last number of years:
- Been outed for wearing Mascara
- Been outed for leaving odd items of woman's undies
- Been outed twice for wearing a bra under male clothes (very long while ago)
- Ears pierced twice
- Outed with Belly button piercing (not there now anyway as twice infected)
- Very shaped Eyebrows (although thin) for last 2 to 3 years
- Obvious boobs (B cup, so not big, but definitely there and bouncy
- Remnants of Perfume
- Clear Lacquer on toe nails
- Been outed with nail colour remnants on fingers
- Too many bags when going away
- No sign of male underwear in the washing
- Hairless body for last 5 or so years (used to be like a gorilla before HRT)
- Leg and Arm hair missing (as above)
- MPB very slowly reversing (I do mean slowly)
- Massive interest in Women's wear and shopping (now much more open and with opinions)
- Massive array of Moisturizers (we often buy and share!!!!)
- Never wear Male perfumes
- Always trying to keep nails in shape (still a hard battle there, except for ring and smallest fingers)
- Unisex shoes
- Skinny low waisted jeans, nothing else now
- Avoid doing pool time with family....
Hmmm methinks she has more than an inkling, but is afraid to ask or get told?
?
Maybe I am miss-judging the possible reaction, maybe if it will be fine, but probably with rules, like discretion, at least initially??? Although its going to be no picnic after decades of deceit on my part... will get that thrown back
Maybe I am panicking unnecessarily???
Thoughts anyone???
Extremely nervous Katy
