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Started by bingunginter, March 26, 2015, 12:55:23 PM
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March 26, 2015, 12:55:23 PM
Not much response in the other thread, so I try this one. My coming out is little bit different,
this is the original thread
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,183329.0.html
Since the "come out" I can tell that she become a lot more distance with me. Not sure what to do now. I haven't bring up this topic again since then.
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March 26, 2015, 01:25:32 PM
Could you give us more details?
You were assigned male at birth. You are transitioning to be a woman and you want a relationship with another woman who is your friend?
Kinda lost here.
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March 26, 2015, 01:31:16 PM
You could have a look here for a few thoughts that might help:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,184920.msg1644403.html#msg1644403
Well its up to you since you know them best... I'd talk to them, explain a bit and ask them what their opinion is... in some kind of private setting, or via chat... so everyone could talk about their emotions, what really moves them...
I'd say something along the lines the core of the person will be still the same... with the same sense of humour etc... maybe like a male/female twin...
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