first: I have a profile on Google+ . You put a profile and you can post stuff and people can respond . It's not a dating site or anything of that nature. So I have my picture and the Schrodinger Equation as my profile picture. No mention of trans because it's irrelevant for the site. A few days ago this very handsome gentlemen whose profile say's he's a general in the army and he uses General in his name, messages me and and says he'd like to add me as a friend because he likes my profile and thinks I'm pretty( his words) so I say cool , a General way cool. So now we're talking all the time, which again is cool because he's a handsome military looking guy.# 1 problem is that I'd like to get to know him , but I curious if there is any way I can check to see if he's really a General. I've googled his name , but the only thing that comes up is the profile. on G+ #2: He seems to be really interested in me and I want to keep talking to him, But I'm pretty sure if not totally positive once the T word comes out he'll stop. I don't know what to do or how to handle this , I'm getting confused. For some reason he says I beautiful and I'm getting quite turned on . Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.