Hello. So I have my own debit card, but I'm still under 18 and live with my parents. I'm out to them and they're cool with it and are trying to call me by my preferred pronouns. I would like to get my own packer, but I'm afraid to tell my parents about it because, well, they may find them inappropriate for me to have. I've tried making my own out of socks or whatever, but they just don't do it for me.
So my real question is, how do I order one without them questioning what I got/ what it is/ etc.? Do I just tell them that it is something else I'm ordering? Thanks.