Hello. So I have my own debit card, but I'm still under 18 and live with my parents. I'm out to them and they're cool with it and are trying to call me by my preferred pronouns. I would like to get my own packer, but I'm afraid to tell my parents about it because, well, they may find them inappropriate for me to have. I've tried making my own out of socks or whatever, but they just don't do it for me.

So my real question is, how do I order one without them questioning what I got/ what it is/ etc.? Do I just tell them that it is something else I'm ordering? Thanks.

When I got my first packer I was under 18 but had a debit card too, I got it with some packing underwear, so I just said I ordered some underwear. Not a lie, just omitting truth XD But even if I didn't get the underwear, that's the lie I would have said. It's not like they're gonna ask to see it since underwear is a personal thing.

Buy yourself a visa gift card from walmart or what have you, and use the gift card to buy the packer online.

You could get it shipped to a friend's house, perhaps?

Maybe a friend can have it be sent to them if you're worried about nosy people.

They will find out sooner or later. You will end up leaving it in the bathroom or they will walk into your room with the packer sitting out somewhere.

Maybe order from Amazon or a place that doesn't have an obvious name. The transaction will post under the name of the place, not what you purchased. You can tell them the purchase is whatever you want.

Thanks everyone, I was able to order mine yesterday. I'm getting it from FTM essentials and I told my parents I was getting an stp, which is true, and they're ok with it.