Hey gang,
Here I am, wondering about something that until a couple weeks ago was probably farthest from my mind. When I started coming out as Trans to folks, most were relatively positive, the only really negative response was from an online friend, and it was more that she felt I had lied to her about myself. we worked that out and became even better friends, eventually sharing with each other that we held romantic feelings for each other. It was my now girlfriend who said it first, and I responded in kind. Seemed that both of us were afraid to speak for fear of jeopardizing the friendship we have built over the last several years.
Our relationship is long distance, but we have been fairly sexually active in private chat together. I have even gone so far to describe the exact amount of space I have down there and how much pressure is needed to pleasure me inside, which is considerable.
We have discussed openly and frankly about the surgical options in front of me for lower surgery and she is against phallo since my level of sexual pleasure is as important to her as her own and she doesn't want me to have any surgery that will reduce my penetrative ability to the equivalent of a blow up doll with minimal feeling.
I've been very lucky to find her, both as a friend and as a girlfriend and lover (even if only virtual for now). She accepts me as I am, pre everything, and has taught me things that she has learned that I have never known (she has been sexually active, where I am essentially a virgin other than our cyber encounters).
Anyhow.... What I really want to know is: guys who have had Meta, what is sexual activity like for you? I know there's a need to find alternate ways to pleasure, but if you can penetrate to some degree, is it worth it, and what becomes of the wetness that comes from arousal? I'm not trying to be voyeuristic, I am trying to guage what it's like to make a fully informed decision on oging for meta or just clitoral release or what, since my girlfrind honestly has no problem with me being a he and having a hole instead of a joystick (hehe).
