I'd like to point out before I continue that I'm not a stranger to being objectified... Being groped, (and sometimes worse...) by strangers is not unusual so in general I shouldn't be surprised... But I never expected this from a friend...
Basically, it started out with a text message - "I broke up with my girlfriend, I'm coming over tonight we have to catch up."
I replied - "Kay' but come before 12, I got to get up early tomorrow...." (Matter of fact I need to get up in 4 hours time but I'm too angry to go to sleep, I must let it out and see some advice first..)
Anyway, he appeared at 12.30 am... I wasn't going to deny a 'friend' in, but honestly I was a big angry...
Anyway, time passed, we had a beer... He kept commenting how I looked so much more feminine and that I had a really nice figure.... I was like... Mk' thanks... Found it funny to be honest, thought not much of it.. Well he started mentioning it being 'hot' and giving me 'the look'... "You said when you had your boobs operated you'd let me touch..." I was like "Uh, I barely have any I'm only on HRT..." He then goes to move a hand under my skirt, to my panties, I push it away.... "Please, let me just touch them.. (I forgot exactly what but he was playing the pity game using his breakup as an excuse...) Constantly tryign to pull his hand from my bum... "Okay just touch them and drop it..." That's when his hands went into my panties and into my bra... "Too far..." I pulled away... He says it doesn't have to mean anything and that I make him really horny... I'm like no.. We're friends, that's all I see you as and I don't do that with friends.."
This is where it gets fun... He finally apologizes, I said it's fine, he only made me feel a bit uncomfortable is all... That's when he uses the punchline... "After all it was simply a revenge f**k out of hatred for her..." I just stared at the floor with my mouth wide open... "So you don't really find me that attractive then?" He says no, that he finds my ex-best friend who I hate a lot more sexy than me.... Who a matter of fact I was telling him a while earlier what she did to me.... I'm freaking out at this point. "She has manly hands and is really ugly... How can you prefer her?" (She's cis I should point out but I really hate her so this became a competition...) "Because I'm hetero" Great... I just stare at him and become quiet for a good 5 minutes... And he comes to me saying softly "Oh but you're still second, after (He mentions a few of my female friends) all come after you....." ..... ....... Great coz that magically makes it all better.... Right?
It was awkward silence from that moment till he realized I didn't want him there and decided to leave....
