My baby sister and I are very close, during the recent storms when I was freaking out about not being able to reach a friend. She drove me up into the rain effected area at night to 'rescue them' (and my sanity). I am her big sister aunt to her 4yr old. When she's sick and not being normal the one who tries to pull her into line and has great pleasure in telling her "I told you so". Plus help her choose outfits for when she goes out, and vis a vie. We have this bond as we don't have much a relationship with our mother and the family we talk to is interstate.
Mum has never accepted me being trans. Her last words on the subject where "I'll support you, but others won't"
"Don't tell any of my family until I've had a chance to deal"
Since Christmas I've been trying to catch up with mum, to show her how happier I've become and that people do see and accept me as the women I am. Texts have either been left unanswered, oh I'm busy. Phone calls ring out.
My nephew's birthday is coming up and mum should be there. Part of me is glad because it will give me a chance to see her. The other down right scared I haven't been seen as male since November, and even out at children's party I will still be seen as one of the girls. (With my clothing and style I'll probably be seen as a bigger kid
). My sister's friends who will be there have known me as her sister from the start without any problems
Why, when will mum be able to accept this is me
