Susan's Place Logo

News:

According to Google Analytics 25,259,719 users made visits accounting for 140,758,117 Pageviews since December 2006

Main Menu

So I Went to the Doctor's...

Started by T90, May 27, 2015, 05:31:28 AM

Previous topic - Next topic

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

T90

A quick follow up to my previous thread.

So I went to the Doctor's this morning, due to my anxiety, but with the intention of talking about my Gender Dysphoria. I was really nervous sitting in the waiting room, wondering which Doctor I would get, as there's one male and one female Doctor. Luckily I got the female Doctor, which put me much more at ease, and after discussing my anxiety I was able to bring up that I feel uncomfortable being a man.

The Doctor was extremely nice about it, asking me questions about how I feel inside and how the Dysphoria effects me. She took her time with me, as she could probably see it was a massive weight being lifted from my shoulders, and couldn't have been any kinder towards me, even congratulating me for having the bravery to talk to her about it.

The result was that I shall be seeing a psychiatrist in a couple of months time, with a view to moving onto more Gender Identity specific care afterwards, which is pretty much exactly the result I was hoping for. I have to admit that while it was scary, it also felt really good to finally talk to someone about it, and I did feel that once I started talking I wasn't going to stop. It's going to take a while yet but I finally feel like I'm getting somewhere now. The first step has been taken.  :)
  •  

Laura_7

  •  

suzifrommd

Quote from: T90 on May 27, 2015, 05:31:28 AM
The result was that I shall be seeing a psychiatrist in a couple of months time, with a view to moving onto more Gender Identity specific care afterwards, which is pretty much exactly the result I was hoping for.

This is wonderful. I'm glad you were able to bring it up. I'm getting a sense that this is the direction you know you need to move into.

Please just be aware that there are psychiatrists who don't necessarily know a lot about gender. I had a really bad experience with the psychiatrist I was referred to. Doesn't mean it will happen to you, but I was shocked and surprised because I hadn't even thought it was a possibility.
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
  •  

katrinaw

Hi T90..

Congrats  :-*

That's almost exactly how I did it, went to a Dr (but I also found out that they were transgender experienced) and shuffled around in the waiting room, in my mind going over what I was going to say... I eventually got called in, and I just blurted out why I was there and why I needed to be there... history now, I still get my scripts from him, we talk a bit... but it was such a massive weight off my shoulders... still got more to shed...

L Katy  :-*
Long term MTF in transition... HRT since ~ 2003...
Journey recommenced Sept 2015  :eusa_clap:... planning FT 2016  :eusa_pray:

Randomly changing 'Katy PIC's'

Live life, embrace life and love life xxx
  •  

T90

Quote from: suzifrommd on May 27, 2015, 06:32:07 AM
This is wonderful. I'm glad you were able to bring it up. I'm getting a sense that this is the direction you know you need to move into.

Please just be aware that there are psychiatrists who don't necessarily know a lot about gender. I had a really bad experience with the psychiatrist I was referred to. Doesn't mean it will happen to you, but I was shocked and surprised because I hadn't even thought it was a possibility.

From what I could gather from my Doctor there is a team of Psychiatrist's in my area, and the couple of months wait is so that they can assess which Psychiatrist would be the best match for me, so hopefully that won't happen.
I suppose the Human brain is such a complicated thing that it would be difficult to be an expert in every area of it.
  •