Looking at photos, I think you look very pretty. Your features are on a little stronger side, but this also ads to overall attractiveness of your face. I understand why you would want to make some things more softer. With years, softness of soft tissue slowly goes away, and underlying structure becomes more and more apparent. "Feminizing" some features, although I'm not shure this is the appropriate word, would indeed be very welcome difference, even more than now, 10, 20 and more years later. What exactly to change or how much isn't something I feel comfortable saying. I'm certanly not a facial surgeon, and although I see points where you could benefit, like chin, softening of orbital&lower forehead area (orbital reduction), hairline advance, maybe rhinoplasty, I think you should discuss this with facial surgeons. Not neccessarily with average "plastic-aesthetic-reconstructive" surgeons, but rather with specialized cranio-maxillo-facial surgeons, and rhinoplasty specialist for your nose.
