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At what point did you legally change your name?

Started by Jake25, June 01, 2015, 01:45:49 AM

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Tysilio

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But I am always very dry.
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Katiepie

I have a minimum of 4 years before I'd be able to change my name. On the sheer fact of the military. I conclude 4 years due to keeping my benefits, and not having to pay a dime back of the bonus I got from resigning a contract. It's that or the protections happen, and dependant of so is when I would get the name change done.

Of course unofficially I can always be Kate, but by documentation, I will remain male named.

Kate
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kelly_aus

I did mine as soon as I was able to afford it, which was about 2 years after I came out..
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Tessa James

Quote from: Tysilio on June 03, 2015, 10:58:08 PM
But I am always very dry.

Still lmao.  its a generational thing, boomers!!  One of the most important characteristics of this site is the diversity of generations, culture and more. Thank you!
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genderirrelevant

It was the very first thing I did (years before identifying as trans). I socially changed right after high school and legally changed it 6 years later. The name is gender-neutral (I'm agender) but it started from a male name and the female version felt quite wrong.
My non-binary transition blog:
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Tysilio

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Still lmao.  its a generational thing, boomers!!  One of the most important characteristics of this site is the diversity of generations, culture and more. Thank you!

You betcha. Power to the grownups! 
Never bring an umbrella to a coyote fight.
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Mai

i put in the paperwork the first opportunity i could after starting hormones.  theres a bit of a wait in most areas for the court date. ~10 weeks here right now.  and once you get the court orders you dont have to go immediately to change it.   so ill get the court papers.  then when i move in a few months ill deal with the id and gender.
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teddybear_zach

I went full time in September 2014, starteed hormones October 2014, submitted name change January 2015 and it was granted February 2015
Started T: 10/25/2014
Name Change: 02/28/2015
Hysterectomy(uterus, ovaries/tubes): 04/02/2015
Top Surgery: 12/08/2015
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Arch

I changed my name early on for two reasons. I was obsessed with transitioning, but I was terrified to even try because of all the roadblocks. This was the mid-nineties; things were actually quite different. I also was afraid to lose my partner. So the name change was my way of asserting my true self.

The second reason was that I was due to graduate from college about a year later, and I wanted to make absolutely sure that my diploma didn't have my old name on it. I didn't want any paperwork snarls down the road.
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Christine Eryn

I'm not going to do any legal chages till I have FFS. To have my old face on my license that says the F gender marker would be pointless and meaningless.
"There was a sculptor, and he found this stone, a special stone. He dragged it home and he worked on it for months, until he finally finished. When he was ready he showed it to his friends and they said he had created a great statue. And the sculptor said he hadn't created anything, the statue was always there, he just cleared away the small peices." Rambo III
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