I am and its confusing

[Owen]

Well I was born a male and did manly things for much of my life but I always felt that I really should have been a woman. I had these feelings since early on, just hid them from everyone. Maybe it's just phycological in there mind but my mind says woman.


Owen
love being female

 

[taylor]

Owen,

Out of curiosity let me ask you this: Would it be more fitting to say that you were assigned the male sex due to dominating physical characteristics that are used for the current standards of identifying a persons "sex" today? Could it not be that you are a woman that was mis identified because the current standards for assigning and "fixing" sex into one of only two allowable catagories, failed you? The true ability to measure ones actual "sex" is very limited.

It is my belief that we are ALL intersexed on a spectrum of Sexual Identity that has us sliding all over the place. We were given a sex catagory at birth that was "assumed", not something that should have ever been allowed to be so "fixed" that correcting ( not changing) it would be such a major social issue.

We are not a condition, we are a part of a human sexual spectrum. ( this again is my own opinion)

I am curious to how you may view what I am saying. Hope you won't mind sharing!

Peace,

Taylor

[Davilee]

Danivamp/christy.....Hi,how are you doing?....What is that condition technically called?
Someone i talked with said it was "chimera"?......so, it was from absorbing your sibling in utero?
Thats really excellent that you have closure to at least some of your puzzling traits....
Does it feel great to discover those sort of unknown parts of you?

[Michelle F]

Hey Christy,

Just intersested in some of thie signals that caused you to seek medical intervention. Was it gynecomastia, or the cramps, or something else? Also wanted to know, what your female hormone level looked like?

Posted on: November 20, 2007, 11:01:35 PMSorry Christy,

I asked a lot of questions there and may have been out of place. I have posted on another subject and have some somatic problems and am just trying to firgure it all out for myself at this time.

Your original post, says "I am and am confused". I take it that you  are confused because you have this whole history in a gender that your body does not 100% belong to? You have conflicted feelings maybe? or you are wondering what it all means as to what you need to/can/should do at this point. I understand.

Would especially like to talk to you as I may very well be in the same situation.

Hugs to you
michelle

[martjan]

hi iam between boy and girl and inwards i have also stuff of a woman  but also stuff of a men so ima born this way and learn to live white it and yes becuase womans stuff i have inwards i can be pragent but i dont have a vagina like girls so its not posibile to become pregand