Sorry to burst everyone's placebo bubble, but I have been drinking soy milk (and most of the other products Ms Grace lists) daily for 26 years and had no such feminising effects. But wouldn't it be good if it were true?!
Mind you, when my endo received my first round of tests, he couldn't explain why my Sex Hormone Binding Globulin (SHBG) levels were so high. My testosterone levels were also at the low end of normal. There was no evidence to suggest that my SHBG and T levels were caused by a long term diet high in phytoestrogens, but my endo thought my diet interesting enough to note down in his little book of research