I'm pretty large chested, so naturally I have issues binding. However, I can't seem to find a permanent solution and it's getting to the point where I'm afraid to sit or stand in certain positions for fear of it exaggerating my chest. I use the "down and out" method, but it seems like they migrate back to their original position within at least an hour, and it's kind of hard to constantly adjust myself throughout the day.
I try wearing shirts a size larger, and it looks fine if I slouch enough, but if I try to stand up straight it almost clings to my chest in a way and I'm back to square one. It seems like no matter what I do, I still have a uniboob. I still have a ways to go before I can get top surgery, but I don't want to ruin my posture more than I already have and I'm tired of not being able to wear what I want because I don't look flat enough.
Does anyone have any tips for reducing these issues, or maybe some binder recommendations? I currently use an underworks 997. I'm especially worried about this because I'm going stealth this coming school year and I don't want to raise more suspicion than I already probably will.