Well I went and seen the therapist. And it was great I was pleased with what was said and the out come. me and my wife go back on the 9th. My therapist also recommended HRT gave me a list of doctors that do HRT as well. she wants to see me a couple more times, also she has no problem getting me on HRT, I guess it was my childhood of wanting to do shelf mutilation, and how it is affecting my life now, so it was a positive step into a new bigger world I would say. well I am back off to work again its been a real busy past week and this week too.