I'm super goofy, but I like Ravyn, and Nerine, and Faline.
I'd avoid Lilith, Eris, and Saden.
I think names mean something and reflect how others perceive us, and as such how we perceive ourselves. The three names I'm against are associated with powerfully destructive consuming or chaotic energies, and I think it's not something that should be invited in.
I named myself Amanda because my Mom, in a moment of lucidity very rare for her, told me that when I was born the doctors thought I was going to be a girl, and that I was going to originally be named Amanda after my great grandmother. As it's the name my mother would have given to me it was natural for me to select it. I also like that I can shrink it to Amy(I like long names that can be shrunk). Had I not called myself Amanda I would have went with Elizabeth and Ellie for short, as I've always loved the name and it means "Oath from God" which seems to ring of honesty, which I strive for all the time.
All opinions aside, whatever you select, make sure it has real meaning to you. That is my advice.