I sure hope you will prevail and/or appeal any denial of care due to these discriminatory and exclusionary riders. I am not sure about Aetna but at Kaiser they are group policies and we are unable to simply buy our way in, as an individual, if we happen to have a crappy plan.
Yes, it is very hypocritical for the big companies to tout their HRC platinum status as they kick us to the curb.
Keep it up Dude!