im scared

[preston j sannicolas]

i was doing my nails for the first time today and the neighbor kids saw and now im scared 

[-May-]

Can I ask what you are scared of exactly? :c

[preston j sannicolas]

them telling their mom and her telling my mom

[Laura_7]

Don't be scared... maybe they think its weird but there are worse things.

Did they say something ? Did they see you paint or did they see the result ?

Are their family kind of open ?


hugs

[preston j sannicolas]

they saw both im not sure what their family is like but their mom texts my mom a lot so idk

[preston j sannicolas]

i think they saw my toes im not sure

[Laura_7]

So you have painted your toenails ?

Have you thought of what you'd tell your mom in case ?

[-May-]

First off: You shouldn't worry that much. It is not something to be ashamed of or anything.
Even if your mum finds out, how do you think she would react?

[preston j sannicolas]

idk i was planning on telling her maybe in December or something and with a note

i have no clue what to say as a excuse

[-May-]

Why do you want to wait until december? If you are sure and you have a kind and caring mother, you can just do it anytime. The earlier the better ^^
Of course, that doesn't mean go ahead and tell her right now, a little planning can't hurt o3o

[Laura_7]

Its possible it goes unnoticed.

If not, well... you might say you liked it and wanted to try...

for example...

well its up to you...

the other option is to tell in a kind of planned way...

[preston j sannicolas]

i wanted to wait in till i got that voice out of my head saying that it wasn't true.but every day i am becoming more certain i am trans i also wanted to tell my grandma first

[-May-]

Well, if your mum finds out, keep in mind you did nothing wrong, really ~
If your mum doesn't find out, feel free to tell her yourself. Even if you are uncertain right now.
I can tell you after a while everything might just come up at once and you wish you came out earlier -w-

[Dena]

My brother once caught me in my mothers clothes and for a couple of days my brother and sister blackmailed me. Finally I had enough and figured they wouldn't tell on me because blackmail was as bad as what I did so I stopped being their slave. They didn't have the brains I though they did and they told. My mother just thought it was one of those phases I was going through and that was the end of it for about 7 or 8 more years until I came out.

At that time treatment wasn't possible for me so coming out at that point wouldn't have given me the treatment I needed and that was why I continued to keep myself hidden. You have the other option of getting on blockers now and stopping further development. It's your decision.

[preston j sannicolas]

she dint find out i hope the neighbor girl that plays with my sister doesn't tell her but if she does i guess it is what it is

thank you all for the comfort hugs