It sounds like you have two choices. Ignore their attitudes, (they are the ones with the problem, not you), or get a job where no one knows about your situation. I don't know if I could work in that sort of environment. No disrespect to those who are religious, but I have a big problem with people who use God as an excuse to pity or hate us. They may use religion as an excuse, but its really them personally that have the problem.
sam1234