The problem you all face is that to do this you would have to move not once but twice - because when you first transition believe me you are likely to be damn obvious and people WILL know... then at some point between one and three years later 99% of transitioners will have reached the point where some degree of anonymity about the past is feasible.
So in order to effect your dream you would have to move somewhere to transition - and then somewhere else once postop...
The problem doesnt stop there though, as many have found to their cost, because in this modern age its pretty easy to trace people, and indeed the world is a much smaller place than you think. So just one random leak or chance encounter can bring whole edifice down - plus of course the one person you cant run away from is YOU!
Most of the people I have known who were "deep stealth" became, for want of a better phrase, "bat->-bleeped-<- crazy paranoid" and frankly they are amongst the unhappiest people I know! I cannot in all good conscience reccomend it because in my 31 years postop all the people I've seen who gone down that road have had problems either mental, physical, or social, whereas almost all those of us who have adopted a more middle of the road approach have ended up well integrated, respected and liked.
So my advice is think again - I understand the siren appeal - but it is a siren call towards rocks you cannot yet even see.
