I told my wife before we were married that I was a ->-bleeped-<-,that's the only label I knew at the time,11 years into our marriage and only wearing nities occasionally,and dressing in private,I was self destructive and started a internet affair and got caught,I wanted too be caught. The short story is we talked for 3 days nonstop,no sleep,and the whole ugly mess reared its head and I finally told her the whole story,her response was you want too wear makeup,so she made me up and I looked like the bearded lady,next day she had me fully shave and made me up again. What helped her was her sister who lives with us,who is very accepting of Cheryl,and bought my first wig,my wife liked it.we are 16 yrs later and we still do this together,I like my life like it is now,and srs is not for me,neither is hrt since I already have a woman looking body. Its been a rough 27 yrs together,but one I cherish,for we are very close more now than at the beginning.