discussion-transgender couple

[crystals]

so ive got a wierd situation to talk about and im not sure if im allowed to talk about it here even so it says intimate significant others


so yea obviously you know im trans myself by now male-female as ive been a part of this forum for a long time
what changed? well i have a significant other now. i dont know if i can call him a boyfriend already because we are only starting to date next week but we have been going on and on becoming more attached to each other every day and talking a lot on the phone and texting and know how each other looks. he is female-male and even so we are building the basics of our connection we are pretty sure this is going somewere realy good for the both of us. we know we care a lot for each other and in a way provide a push forward to each other

we both want children prefferably our own both of us young at ages 18-22
where im getting at is
are there any other couples around here where both involved are trans that i can talk to? i got some questions that i just want to ask hopefully to people who are pretty open about how such relationship works when things go a little intimate

its not like im gona leave him just because i dont know this. i wont
but i like to know what we are walking in to

can i talk to anyone who knows this situation ?
thanks i would understand if this is a little obscure to talk about or banned from public

[bwr]

In terms of intimacy, I think it's probably best to communicate your desires and expectations with your man.  We're not both trans, but we both had things we were comfortable with and things we weren't.

In terms of future children, you have so many options at your disposal!


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[crystals]

thank you i would like to know more people's opinions too

[Laura_7]

Well you might change the headline of your thread... so others know its about two transgender peoples relationship...
I'd say this way many more peopel are likely to take part...

wish you much luck and fun together 

this aticle might interest you, too:
http://www.milkjunkies.net/2013/05/trans-women-and-breastfeeding-personal.html


*hugs*

[WolfNightV4X1]

Im ftm and I have an mtf girlfriend, Im quite happy with this and thought our situation was odd, fated even, but it seems we wouldnt be the only ones. Hehe!

[WolfNightV4X1]

If your question is about intimacy and parenthood...well, for parenthood we have it easy, as neither of us are interested in biological children, for many reasons. For me its because I dont want to bear the child, for her its because she wishes she could but cant, that and she does not wish to pass along some of her negative traits. We're both very fond of the idea of adoption and should that time come we both know what wewant in parenthood.

As for intimacy, it wasnt difficult. She agreed to keep certain traits, and we would be closer to each other pre-transition before she starts to experience some new changes, as time wears on Im aware libidos may change or that some body types will change. Ultimately though, I love her for who she is, and I find her attractive regardless.