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If there was no transphobia anywhere worldwide, then would you prefer to be cis?

Started by Futurist, December 02, 2015, 04:22:54 PM

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Futurist

If there was no transphobia anywhere worldwide, then would you prefer to be cisgender over being transgender if you could magically become cisgender?

Any thoughts on this?
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Kellam

Nope, I like being trans. If there was no transphobia then I would have had an easier time being open about it and getting on with my life would have happened sooner. Cis is not synonymous with easy life. Trans is a wonderful thing to be. If I were alone in the world I would still be a trans woman.
https://atranswomanstale.wordpress.com This is my blog A Trans Woman's Tale -Chris Jen Kellam-Scott

"You must always be yourself, no matter what the price. It is the highest form of morality."   -Candy Darling



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Deborah

Transphobia or not I would rather have been born CIS, one way or the other.
Love is not obedience, conformity, or submission. It is a counterfeit love that is contingent upon authority, punishment, or reward. True love is respect and admiration, compassion and kindness, freely given by a healthy, unafraid human being....  - Dan Barker

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suzifrommd

I think I would have had a much easier life being cis. Growing up, I never know why I didn't fit in with the guys. My adult years were lonely because friendships were really hard. I didn't piece the puzzle together until I was 50. Had nothing to do with transphobia. My family would have been accepting and I would have embraced my gender. I was just too clueless to figure it out.

I wish I could have been a cis woman.

However, being a trans woman is infinitely preferable to being a cis man.
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Amato

What the...

Dude I'm not trans, because I'm reacting to how other people see me. I'm trans because of how I see myself.

EDIT: Meh, I wont speak for anyone other than myself here.
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warmbody28

cis all the way. i still dream about being pregnant and thats the only way i could be pregnant
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ThaliaNyx

Quote from: suzifrommd on December 02, 2015, 04:32:43 PM
I wish I could have been a cis woman.

However, being a trans woman is infinitely preferable to being a cis man.

Absolutely.
Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend, I'll help you carry on
For it won't be long, till I'm gonna need
Somebody to lean on
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Lady Smith

No I would still want to be as I am.  Lack of transphobia would just make it easier.
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Christy76

I can't honestly say which I would want to be. Being cis would be great but I think being trans kept me out of a lot of bad situations. I think I might be a better person being trans than if i were cis. If I had been a cis woman I might have been the kind of teen who liked to party too much and I don't know where that would have lead.
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sparrow

Huh, this is actually an interesting question for me.  I tried to pick a cisgender to be born into -- it'd be nice to fit in, right?  I failed to pick one.  I've been identifying, more or less, as bigender recently.  I'd like to fit in with men and women... and I really can't decide which way I'd go.  Makes sense, I guess.  I wonder if this label will stick or if I'll have to learn a new one next month.
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gennee

Be who you are.
Make a difference by being a difference.   :)

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Kylo

Well it would certainly make for an easier life, but an easy life didn't make me who I am...
"If the freedom of speech is taken away, then dumb and silent we may be led, like sheep to the slaughter."
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purplewuggybird

I would much rather be BORN cis, but since we didn't really specifically mention that I would say no. Besides, a lot of the time being trans seems a lot more fun than being cis in some ways (at least to me).
Just trying to share the love <3!
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stephaniec

I have a feeling it wouldn't of mattered in my case. I would of been bullied either way. I just never fit in the social world. I would of liked to have kept holding my boyfriends hand when I was 6 and gone to the prom with him, but what you going to do.
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captains

- cameron
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WorkingOnThomas

While there are definitely physical things that a cis male has that I want and currently have no way of obtaining, I'd probably say no. I am who I am, and there's nothing wrong with me.
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Serenation

I will touch a 100 flowers and not pick one.
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Sarah82

I am what I am, I'm just changing the outside to match the inside.
If I could magically become a biological woman I would do it in a heartbeat, less than that I would do it in an attosecond. I'll just have to wait for rapid cloning and brain transplants.
I would not want to change what is inside to a cismale personality.





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Asche

Quote from: Sarah82 on December 03, 2015, 07:28:57 AM
I am what I am, I'm just changing the outside to match the inside.
If I could magically become a biological woman I would do it in a heartbeat, less than that I would do it in an attosecond. I'll just have to wait for rapid cloning and brain transplants.
I would not want to change what is inside to a cismale personality.

Same here.  Especially and definitely not cismale -- I'd take an encounter with Cthulu over that.  (Apologies to the T-men here.)

I don't really want to give up my history, though, but I would happily go for a less soul-destroying growing-up.
"...  I think I'm great just the way I am, and so are you." -- Jazz Jennings



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