Well you might think about seeing a gyn.
This might be an idea:
https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,68720.msg463356.html#msg463356I then got from a health food store a probioitic designed for the vagina and is inserted into the vagina. It will fix the vagina flora. You'll get some discharge after from the pill dissolving, and you'll use it for a few days, laying down and inserting it at night.
That pill made a huge difference. I smell and taste amazing. I feel healthier down there and all over. I self-lube better. And I haven't had any re-occurring yeast infections or BV. I swear by this product! I've read on other forms about it, which other people also swear by -- I've read stories of women having problems for 10 years and taking a vaginal probiotic stopped it.
This is from another posting:
In the UK they are sold as INTRAFRESH over in the US they are FEMINA FLORA. In Australia / NZ I imagine there will be another name wich you will have to find - Google "Probiotic Vaginal Pessaries"
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After the three months (after srs) is up the healing is all done and you no longer need the iodine so you can switch to the probiotics quite safely. They work well too!
Additionally some people use coconut oil for dilating.
It has antiviral properties and has very small molecules which might help soften the tissue.
You might look if dilators are oil resistant (usually they should be), and in case of using condoms use non latex ones.
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