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Started by Andi, October 01, 2007, 11:28:00 AM

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Andi

I've been lurking aroung and reading post the last few days and glad I've found this site to hopefully have help with my journey. 

My story reads much like a lot of you in that I starting very young with my older sisters make-up and clothing wishing I was a girl.  Through the years, I've have a number of episodes where I could not supress my need to dress up to my true self but this last one has been something else.  I'm 43, married, and have 3 kids (18 year old twins and 21 year old son).  My wife and I played from time to time with me getting made up but she did not realize why I wanted to until a couple of months ago when I had a long talk while camping.

At first she didn't know what to think but soon realized she loves me for who I am.  She just didn't want to loose me.  We have been married for 23 years.  She's been great the last month buying me make-up and clothing and said she likes it that I eant go go shopping more now than I used to.  Her support means everything to me.

Anyway, I'm currently looking for a therapist to begin HRT but being in the deep south, they are few and far between.

Thanks for listening!

Andi
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Sarah Louise

Welcome Andi,

I am glad you found this site, sit back and take time to look around.  I am sure you will find a lot of valuable information here.

Sarah L.
Nameless here for evermore!;  Merely this, and nothing more;
Tis the wind and nothing more!;  Quoth the Raven, "Nevermore!!"
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RebeccaFog

Hi Andi,

   Welcome to Susans!
    We're all happy to meet another traveller.  May your journey be smooth and warm with love.


Rebis
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NickSister

Hi Andi, nice to meet you.

It is awsome to hear when partners are willing to stick by you. She must be a wonderful woman.

Look forward to hearing from you

Nick
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jerigurl

welcome...i'm a newbie here too, and it sounds like you have good support from your spouse.  you are very lucky indeed.  keep reading and you will learn quite a bit.  good luck

jeri
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Jessie_Heart

Hi Andi

it is very nice to meet you. it sounds as though you and your wife have a great relationship its great that you have that support it does make things easier if your partner in life is supportive and understanding. I don't think I could have the strength to go through this without my wifes love and support! welcome!
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funnygrl

Welcome Andi from another newbie!!! Can't say enough about how great this site is, hope you like it too.
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cindybc

Hi Andi

Welcome to Susan's. I must say that you are very much fortunate that your wife decided to be supportive, very few do and this can creates some rally severe problems psychologically and emotionally for some individuals. I do pray that your transitioning keeps going smoothly for you. The transitioning part alone is hard enough without having someone fight you every step of the way. May you have a blessed journey.

Cindy 
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Bobbie

Hi Andi and welcome :)

I'm so glad that your wife was so understanding. You must love each other very much. 
You'll find a warm welcome here and so much good info, so good luck with everything.

Bobbie XXX




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Andi

Thanks for the warm wecome.  I'm in the learning stages now so any advice is welcome.

My wife is a great person and I'm blessed to have her as my life partner.

Thanks again!

Andi
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Maebh

Céad míle fáilte. Welcome Andi.
Yes you are very fortunate to have such a loving and supporting wife. She shouldn't be taken for granted and she can get support too for herself by sharing on the SO (Significant Others) forum.
Do your children know? What are their reactions?
Go dté sibh slán. Safe journey to all of you.

Light, Love & Respect

Maebh
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tinkerbell

Hello Andi and welcome to Susan's!

Thanks so much for your introduction. Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the boards of the site, review the site rules before posting, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page.  We look forward to your future posts and participation.  Enjoy your stay :)

tink :icon_chick:
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Monika Smith

Thanks for the great intro Andi and welcome to Susans.  You're very lucky to have a supportive partner hon, she sounds like a great lady.  I wish you all the best on your journey.  Hope we can meet up in chat some day.

Hugs & kisses,

Monika
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