Transsexual depression is a serious issue in the community.
The want of something better, the continual insecurity, the frustration and the self-hatred...
IT HAS TO STOP
Please understand that there is more to life than gender. Please understand that you don't have to be a certain person to attain happiness. If that were the case, how do you think fat people could ever be happy?
Please people, you are a bunch that walk a path that many people don't understand. Don't make this harder on yourself. As someone who's been through hell and back as many of you have, I know it gets better. It doesn't get better by transition, it get's better by choice.
Life is about movement, about love, about what's natural. Don't ever become overly obsessed with something. When that happens, you've fallen into a single-minded trap.
Evaluate what in this life makes you happy. Find out what doesn't make you happy. Avoid using blanket statements. Focus on the particulars like ice cream or panties or jerks with a 2 day shadow or telemarketers. Take a walk in a park and drop some bread. Turn around and look, you just made a difference to some (very grateful) wildlife.
Happiness is a choice. It can't be bribed with promises of change. It can't be granted by a set of religious beliefs. It can't be bought by however much you have. It is within you, and all you have to do is flourish in it. Let go of the stresses, because one day they will be gone.
Most importantly friends, always take a step back when you're overwhelmed. Next to planet earth, no problem seems that big. Take a step back, sigh, spread your arms and smile!
Don't be beaten by what others think of who you are, how you look, or what you do.
Spread the love folks.
Post something that you're upset about.
Then post something that makes you happy.
Decide which one is more important to think about.
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I'm upset because I have this stupid ulcer in my mouth and I'm congested with friggin allergies and I've been putting up with a stupid drill instructor for an hour today who is paying me to train him but still wants to say that he knows everything despite my degree and certification.
I'm happy because I finished my homework and turned it in with an hour to spare, I have a mountain dew(even if it hurts the ulcer), and I made some amazing friends today.
I think I'll think about my mountain dew.
Yes, it's more important.