We can all stand here all day debating whats real and whats not. In the eyes of science and what has actually occurred throughout history, there is a huge rift between those that follow God and those that follow reality and what truly is. What can't be explained, God's follows say its because of God, however they become disappointed when science proves what happens in its almost exact order. Sure, no one can explain the big bang but its been proven that dinosaurs came before humans thus debunking the Adam and eve and the garden of Eden plot in the book of Genesis because there are no human remains before the time of the dinosaurs that scientist can carbon date. However there are good things about religion and having a belief in something higher than ourselves. Life is far to strange and not even science can explain everything but continues to make advance to try and understand our world and the worlds left undiscovered to give us some understanding. Religion and belief comes into play when your dealing with the dynamics of family structure, society and your own self. Life is far to difficult and unforgiving to go blind and without some direction. This is why i don't believe in the concept of Heaven and Hell. Your heaven is passing on without regret and with a smile on your face, your hell is passing on with unfinished business and worry that you'll care with you into your next life. The idea of becoming and angel and serving is like slavery to me and this kind of slavery in the afterlife is worse than death. You lose free will and only follow what your told to do and say. Religion was created to give us guidelines and rules to follow to become productive in our own growth and development. However, there are radicals who take it way to far. As i mentioned in a previous post, belief is good but there must be a balance and that's where the sciences come in, as well as its not a matter of people trying to change you and your prospective, its about how strongly you feel about something and how far your willing to go, but just remember the consequences and not everything is as black and white as you hope them to be. I gave up on believing because the human heart is to easily manipulated and the statement i said before " only by God's grace will you be saved," doesn't matter what i do, i wont be saved unless by God's grace and earning grace is next to impossible because even the believer's heart will easily succumb to sin