What made you unhappy today? 7.0

[big kim]

Wondering what happened to an ex & finding she died last year at only 58

[big kim]

I've never been allowed on or near my children's schools since transitioning.

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That's wrong, It's 2017

[Sinead]

I've never been allowed on or near my children's schools since transitioning.

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That's really sad to hear, surely she can't stop you though. Kisses and hugs

[Michelle_P]

Cut off by family, living alone, sleeping alone.

I hate the "holiday season".


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[Megan.]

Cut off by family, living alone, sleeping alone.

I hate the "holiday season".


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Come to mine for Christmas,  we can be alone together [emoji5]

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[Bobbi Anne]

What made me unhappy today was the fact I had just realized it has been 3 years since I have been last able to dress as Bobbi Anne. I miss it so much, but my wife hates it and has 'forbid' me from dressing if we want to keep our marriage together. Just feeling down at seeing all the pretty clothes on sale that I would love to wear.

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[Sinead]

Does anyone else (I'm in the closet btw) get those days where they just can't be around people because seeing everyone in your desired gender is just making you feel really jealous and dysphoric? Wondered if it was just me

[big kim]

A regular guest hadn't been visiting us. I saw on her facebook page she started cancer treatment last summer. There are no further entries since, it doesn't look good

[Megan.]

Does anyone else (I'm in the closet btw) get those days where they just can't be around people because seeing everyone in your desired gender is just making you feel really jealous and dysphoric? Wondered if it was just me

Not just you hun, I still remember those days well,  not fun [emoji853]. I'm sorry you're in that place. X

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[Laurie]

A regular guest hadn't been visiting us. I saw on her facebook page she started cancer treatment last summer. There are no further entries since, it doesn't look good

  That makes me unhappy also Kim  not even knowing of whom you speak. Cancer is a devastating disease.

[steph2.0]

Does anyone else (I'm in the closet btw) get those days where they just can't be around people because seeing everyone in your desired gender is just making you feel really jealous and dysphoric? Wondered if it was just me

Absolutely, Sinead! Only three months ago my wife and I went to one of the huge communities here in Florida that have activities going in the square every night. As we were having dinner I watched women walking around outside in their pretty sundresses and colorful shorts and clothes, just enjoying themselves, and the thought that I'd never ever be able to experience that overwhelmed me, and I had a huge meltdown.

But you know what? It really does get better. I've now gone full-time, and last Tuesday my wife and I went to that same community, took part in a trivia contest, ate dinner, and walked around the square enjoying the music and visiting the vendors, all with me in my new role. It was awesome!

So don't let it get to you too much. Believe me, you can do it, too.

Stephanie

[Gertrude]

Not being loved for who I really am


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[Charlie Nicki]

Cried because of my ex. Again. I want to be with him and he doesn't reject me but doesn't take me back either. We're both in limbo and I'm tired of feeling sad.

[Allison S]

My low self esteem i feel like it gets in the way of everything for me. Today it's been at a high where im presenting "male" at work. I don't remember it being this uncomfortable before

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[Kylo]

We're both in limbo and I'm tired of feeling sad.

Same.

[Angela Drakken]

When you do something nice for a stranger and they respond with; 'Nice! You're the MAN!' So you respond politely with; 'I'm not a man..' So they upgrade to; 'Thank you sir!' In the same exchange..

Lesson learned; heck with everybody. I'm done helping idiots.




*Language Please*

[Megan.]

My job requires me to create 4 minute information videos that get distributed out across my company (tens of thousands) every 3-4 weeks.

It's never fun having to record and edit myself mid-transition with a still very poor voice.

Not nice knowing there will be an indelible record of my transition floating around for years to come [emoji853].



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[sarah1972]

So sorry Megan. I feel with you on this topic.

Might be an odd suggestion but have you looked around, there is software which can change the pitch of your voice into a more female range? Would be a bit more editing work but the results are interesting (as long as you don't crank it up to 11, then you would sound like Mini Mouse). There may even be software you can just run inline while recording, so you could save some work.

You could even re-edit some of the older videos and adjust the pitch ;-)

My job requires me to create 4 minute information videos that get distributed out across my company (tens of thousands) every 3-4 weeks.

It's never fun having to record and edit myself mid-transition with a still very poor voice.

Not nice knowing there will be an indelible record of my transition floating around for years to come [emoji853].



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[Megan.]

Sarah,  that's a good idea, if only I wasn't too lazy to bother [emoji23].
The fact is that,  I should be doing more practice,  and that I'm proud of who and what I am, and I won't hide that. [emoji4]

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[Faith]

Sarah,  that's a good idea, if only I wasn't too lazy to bother [emoji23].
The fact is that,  I should be doing more practice,  and that I'm proud of who and what I am, and I won't hide that. [emoji4]

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this

I've been dressing more to my liking even at work without 'outing'. If they think something is odd, so be it, I don't care. I am me.