snipped: Quote from: Allison S on August 19, 2018, 05:02:16 AM
Yes, I plan on it Monday evening when I see her I think. My sister seems to be supportive and she will be there to hopefully have my back... If/when I need it... I hope.
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And that's another thing.. I had a "friend" pull away from me over something I don't understand. I had done the same by distancing myself back in January...
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I know you can somewhat relate on this. It's just growing up repressing my female identity for so long took a toll on me. I'm trying to understand what about me kept me in that cycle for a while. It was mostly when I was a teenager to my early 20s. I don't think the guys intended to hurt me... Now that I'm estrogen fueled and trying to move on, I feel a ressurgance of some sort of vengence feeling? It hurts me actually and I know it will keep doing that because if I hold on to bitterness.. Well it'll probably suck the life out of me.
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Anyway, I don't want to take over this thread. I just didn't know where else to post and let this out. Thanks again for responding Dani. ☺
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@Allison SDear Allison:Here are some brief comments to your your reply of which I only quoted salient snippets.
Oh, by all means, make very certain that your sister is nearby or even involved in the conversation with your mom...
.... safety in numbers as they say. I will be rooting for you that you have a positive talk with your mom.
Ahhhh, friends pulling away for varying reasons..... this is called life and happens to all of us, sometimes we are left wondering why and what did we do to cause this. Friends will come and go, but real and true friends will always be there for you through your good times and your bad times Talk to any older person, they many times can count their really best life long friends on one hand...
I am still saddened by my old friends that I had before I transitioned... none, I mean none, of them even talk to me any longer, won't return my texts or calls and have stated that they do not agree with nor do they accept my transition......... well, up where I live now I have an entirely new set of very close and good friends that only know me as Danielle, the woman that moved up here to start an accounting business.
And..... relating to guys... some will indeed try to hurt you (women too) .... vengeance is not a good response so just pull away, cross them off of your "circle of friends" list and move on to those that accept you and like you for who you are.
Your post is most welcome on this thread, and no, you are not taking it over, the things that you stated were right in line with the title of this thread... "What made you unhappy today? 7.0"
As you feel so led, you can certainly PM me as you have done in the past....
.... anytime for anything you want to discuss. I am always ready to lend a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen.
Please take care of yourself, be positive about reaching your transition goals, and always knot that we are your biggest fans here on the forums.
Hugs, and more hugs,
Danielle