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What made you unhappy today? 7.0

Started by Dee Marshall, January 25, 2016, 08:16:03 AM

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V M

My ride didn't show up for my therapist appt. again  >:(   Second time in a row  :P
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Tribble

I had a great string of a few days of happiness and elation.  Today I'm down in the dumps.

Had a fight with my husband last night and I haven't been able to recover, mentally.

No interest in anything but driving and belting out lyrics at the top of my lungs.

I'm can't even bring myself to shop online.
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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Linde

Quote from: Tribble on April 17, 2019, 05:11:07 PM
I had a great string of a few days of happiness and elation.  Today I'm down in the dumps.

Had a fight with my husband last night and I haven't been able to recover, mentally.

No interest in anything but driving and belting out lyrics at the top of my lungs.

I'm can't even bring myself to shop online.
Just relax and have a beverage of choice.  You know that It will pass, and everything will be good again!

I can bundle up a bit of my today's joy, and send it to you!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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Linde

Wanted to get the SS card changed to new name and gender, to just stand in front of a closed office door, with the note that there is no service today!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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Tribble

Quote from: Dietlind on April 17, 2019, 05:22:16 PM
Just relax and have a beverage of choice.  You know that It will pass, and everything will be good again!

I can bundle up a bit of my today's joy, and send it to you!

Thank you.  I really appreciate that.

Kinda wish I drank, today. :(

Quote from: Dietlind on April 17, 2019, 05:23:44 PM
Wanted to get the SS card changed to new name and gender, to just stand in front of a closed office door, with the note that there is no service today!

I've been able to change my name with SS (twice--once on court-order and once after my marriage) but they've always refused to amend my gender.  I've called and called and called over the years. :(

Better luck tomorrow!  Did the note say why they were closed today?
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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LaRae

I used to work at Tyson Foods. Great company, I loved the job, and excelled at it. I have Asperger's (AKA High-Functioning Autism), and tend to think logically. This, while sometimes causing problems in other areas, can be an extreme asset when it comes to working with machines. Within a month I became a machine operator and was repairing automated packing robots by hand. It was always hilarious to see the maintenance guys when they got there, only to find it completely done, or me jumping up in it like a monkey to handle it. (I've also always been the 'if you can do it, do it' type)

So anyway, I injured my shoulder and had to go to the nurse to get it checked out. Now, one of the rules there is that you can't bring your phone in, or else it's automatic termination. Again, I have Asperger's, so the short-term memory isn't the best, especially when it comes to what I do with things in my hands. I headed straight to the nurse's office from break, forgot I had my phone with me. My ex texts me, it goes off in my pocket, I'm escorted out. Done. That was a year ago. I've been through multiple jobs since, including going back there as a temp, even though I couldn't stay longer than 3 months, and have been biding my time 'til I can go back.



So up until recently, the time limit on re-hires was 2 years. Then, they brought it down to one, so on the 9th I was eligible for rehire. So, I planned my next couple months round that. moving, new car, etc. I was told by my old boss that I had a guaranteed machine operation job, as well as backup lead, waiting for me.

Then, yesterday comes, and I hear that apparently, on the 1st, there was a policy change, where if you were let go because of your phone, you can't be re-hired. Ever. So I'm basically screwed. And my record's not the cleanest so very few places in the area will take me on.

Trying not to lose my >-bleeped-<., both figuratively & literally. This is so stressful, it feels like everything came crashing down around me.
"Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armour and it can never be used to hurt you."
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Linde

Quote from: Tribble on April 17, 2019, 05:54:27 PM
Thank you.  I really appreciate that.

Kinda wish I drank, today. :(

I've been able to change my name with SS (twice--once on court-order and once after my marriage) but they've always refused to amend my gender.  I've called and called and called over the years. :(

Better luck tomorrow!  Did the note say why they were closed today?
No, I did not.  hat I understand is that they want to see your court order for the name, and two letters, one from a treating physician and one from a certified gender therapist to change the gender marker.

I have both those letters, and i have the gender marker on my ID changed already!  I hope it will work.  I will report!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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KatieP

Quote from: LaRae on April 17, 2019, 06:17:06 PM
I used to work at Tyson Foods. Great company, I loved the job, and excelled at it. I have Asperger's (AKA High-Functioning Autism), and tend to think logically. This, while sometimes causing problems in other areas, can be an extreme asset when it comes to working with machines. Within a month I became a machine operator and was repairing automated packing robots by hand. It was always hilarious to see the maintenance guys when they got there, only to find it completely done, or me jumping up in it like a monkey to handle it. (I've also always been the 'if you can do it, do it' type)

So anyway, I injured my shoulder and had to go to the nurse to get it checked out. Now, one of the rules there is that you can't bring your phone in, or else it's automatic termination. Again, I have Asperger's, so the short-term memory isn't the best, especially when it comes to what I do with things in my hands. I headed straight to the nurse's office from break, forgot I had my phone with me. My ex texts me, it goes off in my pocket, I'm escorted out. Done. That was a year ago. I've been through multiple jobs since, including going back there as a temp, even though I couldn't stay longer than 3 months, and have been biding my time 'til I can go back.



So up until recently, the time limit on re-hires was 2 years. Then, they brought it down to one, so on the 9th I was eligible for rehire. So, I planned my next couple months round that. moving, new car, etc. I was told by my old boss that I had a guaranteed machine operation job, as well as backup lead, waiting for me.

Then, yesterday comes, and I hear that apparently, on the 1st, there was a policy change, where if you were let go because of your phone, you can't be re-hired. Ever. So I'm basically <not allowed>. And my record's not the cleanest so very few places in the area will take me on.

Trying not to lose my >-bleeped-<., both figuratively & literally. This is so stressful, it feels like everything came crashing down around me.

Oh LaRae! My heart goes out to you! That is sooooo sad.

And, never give up...

Kate
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Allison S

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Peach

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CynthiaAnn

Being stuck at work, I'd rather be jammin'....
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Ryuichi13

I forgot to take out the garbage today. 

The recycling truck woke me up at 6am, I fell back asleep, forgot to get the regular garbage together, and just watched the garbage truck go by my house right now.

Bleah.

Ryuichi


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LaRae

Quote from: KatieP on April 17, 2019, 06:44:21 PM
Oh LaRae! My heart goes out to you! That is sooooo sad.

And, never give up...

Kate

Thanks, I'm doing my best.

Heard back from my mom, who currently works there and has been acting as the go-between. The HR manager is really pissed, 'cause this means that there's thousands of people who are just gone, including people he personally told would be able to return.

So, he's sent memos up the chain and gotten ahold of corporate. They apparently seem understanding and are looking into changing it. I should hear by...Tuesday.

That's far better than nothing, but I'm basically expected to spend the next five days without a job while waiting? And while it certainly sounds like they're serious and this is getting traction, there's still the off chance that I'd be waiting for nothing.

God this is so stressful.
"Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armour and it can never be used to hurt you."
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Tribble

Quote from: LaRae on April 18, 2019, 02:45:43 PM
Thanks, I'm doing my best.

Heard back from my mom, who currently works there and has been acting as the go-between. The HR manager is really pissed, 'cause this means that there's thousands of people who are just gone, including people he personally told would be able to return.

So, he's sent memos up the chain and gotten ahold of corporate. They apparently seem understanding and are looking into changing it. I should hear by...Tuesday.

That's far better than nothing, but I'm basically expected to spend the next five days without a job while waiting? And while it certainly sounds like they're serious and this is getting traction, there's still the off chance that I'd be waiting for nothing.

God this is so stressful.

I wasn't in a mental position to reply to your first post about this, but my heart goes out to you.

I'm really glad to hear that there may be a chance.  Fingers crossed for you!
2003-2004 -- Gradual transition -- I didn't correct pronouns and people basically settled on the right ones on their own.
late 2004 -- Orchiectomy.
Late 2015 -- Stupidly saw the political climate and spurned on by my husband's request for a divorce I detransitioned.
2019 -- Rebuilding my wardrobe so I can retransition.  Turns out I cain't bury my true self, after all.  I call these last few years my failed experiment.  At least I found my true feelings were real.
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V M

The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Ryuichi13

Biopsy today for the lump on my cheek.  I've had it since I was seven and had the mumps, but it still HURT!  :(

Ryuichi


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Colleen_definitely

But I thought everyone liked having core samples of their flesh taken with giant needles ???
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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Linde

Quote from: Colleen_definitely on April 24, 2019, 06:31:09 PM
But I thought everyone liked having core samples of their flesh taken with giant needles ???
If you want to know anything about discomfort, have them take a biopsy of your prostate.  They did that 4 times for me to find the reason for blood in my urine!  Fun was had each time!
02/22/2019 bi-lateral orchiectomy






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Colleen_definitely

"We've determined that you have blood in your urine because we biopsied your prostate four times!"   :D
As our ashes turn to dust, we shine like stars...
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