Dreams about transitioning

[mickey.megan]

general share here, not sure if its discussion worthy, but certainly something I'll talk to my psychologist about this week.

So...I had a dream, we (my wife and I) are in the bedroom getting ready for something,  I have not come out officially to her so I'm full on guy mode and in the closet (which I am in real life), and I'm turned away from her for some reason, maybe putting on my clothes and she says to me

"You should go put some make up on, you look better with it on"

and that shocked me in my dream, made me stop dressing for a second. It was so profound, that it woke me out of my sleep, and I had to pause laying in bed, whether or not I really heard what I had heard, and of course our wake up alarms go off, time to get up. NOOOOO take me back to my dream, I need to know how this plays out!

ugggg...


anyone else having crazy dreams like this?

[Thessa]

I had a dream shortly after my final coming out to my wife, when I still had hope for our future.

In my dream I saw myself lying on my back on my half of the bed, my full bosom naked and my wife was approaching me like a cat approaching her prey with a lustful glance. I felt the arousal in anticipation of making love with her. Then I woke up.

It looks like there will be no RL experience, at least not with that woman.

[amberwaves]

I had an interesting dream when I realized I was trans that prompted me to talk to my wife about everything.  I was having a tarot reading and for the future I pulled the tower card followed by the lovers card and a feeling of bliss. I rarely remember dreams, but when I do they are relevant to the current circumstances of my life.  In this case I knew the two figures on the lovers referred to the male and female aspects of my psyche.  I told her about the dream followed by everything else.  She took it remarkably well.

[michelle82]

i used to have dreams like this when I was a child. Though in the dreams it was my mom encouraging me to be my self. I desperately wanted her to support me, but I was too afraid to come out then.

Finally coming out in my 30s, my mom is now my biggest support in my life

[StillAnonymous]

I can't even remember a time when I was a guy in any dreams.  To be fair, I don't really take too much notice in myself within my dreams either though... but if I do, then I'm usually a girl.

[CarlyMcx]

I am out to my wife, and allowed to full dress around the house, and dress androgynously in public.  Sometimes I have dreams where I am out in public and either in transition, or fully dressed but still pre hormones.

In most of my other dreams, I am a disembodied observer.

I recently had one where I was still presenting as male, and in it, I got on board a roller coaster.  I wonder if that is a portent?

[Laura_7]

I am out to my wife, and allowed to full dress around the house, and dress androgynously in public.  Sometimes I have dreams where I am out in public and either in transition, or fully dressed but still pre hormones.

In most of my other dreams, I am a disembodied observer.

I recently had one where I was still presenting as male, and in it, I got on board a roller coaster.  I wonder if that is a portent?

Deams speak with symbols and pictures.

Rollercoaster is a picture that speaks for itself imo. 


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