I'm getting a hysterectomy in May and I can't decide whether I should keep or remove the ovaries. The main reason I'm getting the hysterectomy is that I feel really uncomfortable with the idea that I could get pregnant and that I would need any gynecological check-ups (I just don't want it in there). I don't think I care about having biological kids, I'm totally fine with adoption and the process of harvesting eggs sounds pretty awful to me, but I'm still young so maybe I'll change my mind. I've heard there are some good medical reasons to keep the ovaries related to long-term heart and bone health, but I'm also afraid of any possible things that could go wrong with them (PCOS, cancer, etc) and the fact that I would need to think about the ovaries makes me a little bit uncomfortable.
Basically, how do I know if the benefits of keeping the ovaries (heart and bone health as well as possible reproductive uses) are worth my mild discomfort (like, maybe needing to see a doctor in the future, but I'm mostly uncomfortable with the uterus) and possible (but unlikely) health problems (like PCOS and cancer)? I don't want to be 80 years old and have heart and bone problems because I was a little bit uncomfortable with my ovaries (I don't want them, but I don't want to jeopardize my health).
(My surgeon wants me to be very sure of my choice, and she seems to be biased towards keeping them)
Thanks!
Edit: I'm also pretty sure I want Metoidioplasty sometime, does having or not having the ovaries matter for that?