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Started by Deborah, January 31, 2016, 11:31:02 AM

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Deborah

Does anyone else have problems with dry hair?  And what do you do about it?

My hair used to be really oily but now it dries out, seemingly overnight.  What I have done so far is stopped using shampoo, 21 days now.  I do use conditioner a couple of times a week.  I also started using oil treatments one or twice a week this week.  Once with coconut oil and once with olive oil.  I've been using Argan oil in it for a few months daily.  I have also turned the hair dryer to med heat.

I haven't cut it in 13 months so right now it's about jaw length on the sides and longer in the back. 

Am I on the right track here with hair care?  Is there anything else to do to keep it from being so dry?


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barbie

A few month ago, I ordered a bunch of hair treatment contained in a small vial, and applied it after shampooing, leaving it on my hair for about 5 min, then rinsing. My hair became noticeably neat just after the first day. The product is available only in my country (S. Korea), but you may find similar products in your country. For example: http://www.totalbeauty.com/content/gallery/best-hair-treatments

I have not tried homemade DIY methods, but you may try these too:
http://helloglow.co/homemade-hair-treatments/

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Dena

Conditioners are not all the same. I have extremely oily hair and I need to shampoo often with a conditioning shampoo for oily hair. I would suggest you visit a beauty supply store and ask for a product that will solve your problem. It's worth the few extra dollars you will pay for a product that works for you.
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barbie

About 2 months ago, I went to a nearby hair salon to get new hair style with hair treatment. I paid a total of ca. US$ 300, which was quite expensive at the standard here. And the hair dresser tried to show that I did not waste my money by saying some tips for hair care. One of them was applying hair treatment after shampooing.

Yes. He was right. I do not need to visit that hair salon again. I could purchase hair treatments for 1 month at just US$ 7 from the internet store.

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Stevie

 Use a sulfate free shampoo and conditioner the detergent action is a lot milder and does not strip your hair of as much of its oils. It doesn't foam up or lather like shampoos with sulfates, unless your hair is super dirty or greasy there is no need for the harsh detergents in shampoo with sulfates. Its also is gentler on hair that is colored or treated.
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Laura_7


-look for organic products which nourish the hair
-do not use a hot blow dryer directly on your hair. Best way imo is to dry it with a towel, wrap it in a towel and wait some time.
Second best is to always have a hand where the dryer blows so too hot temperatures are recognized immediately.

-imo its not necessary to use shampoo every time. Only rinsing for times might be a good idea.

-try brewers yeast supplement for hair care (cereful if you use meds against depression ... ask a doc then). There are other supplements which contain biotin. I'd also suggest organic.

-healthy food might also help, avoiding fast foods and high sugar drinks, eating enough fruit and vegetables . Maybe adding avocado oil to diet, its supposed to be healthy.


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kittenpower

Quote from: Stevie on January 31, 2016, 01:15:42 PM
Use a sulfate free shampoo and conditioner the detergent action is a lot milder and does not strip your hair of as much of its oils. It doesn't foam up or lather like shampoos with sulfates, unless your hair is super dirty or greasy there is no need for the harsh detergents in shampoo with sulfates. Its also is gentler on hair that is colored or treated.
My hairstylist recommends using sulfate free products, going 2-3 days between shampoos, using a leave in conditioner, using thermal protectant products for blow drying and hot tools, and having my hair trimmed every 6-8 weeks to keep the ends healthy and neat even if I am growing it out.
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FTMax

Try coconut oil. I have a friend that uses it on her hair, and swears by it.
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Devlyn

Quote from: Deborah on January 31, 2016, 11:31:02 AM
Does anyone else have problems with dry hair?  And what do you do about it?

My hair used to be really oily but now it dries out, seemingly overnight.  What I have done so far is stopped using shampoo, 21 days now.  I do use conditioner a couple of times a week.  I also started using oil treatments one or twice a week this week.  Once with coconut oil and once with olive oil.  I've been using Argan oil in it for a few months daily.  I have also turned the hair dryer to med heat.

I haven't cut it in 13 months so right now it's about jaw length on the sides and longer in the back. 

Am I on the right track here with hair care?  Is there anything else to do to keep it from being so dry?


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It's always healthier if you let someone cut it. I let mine get really long, but it was raggedy and felt like straw. With a trim every month or two it's much smoother now. I shampoo and condition twice a week.

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Eveline

Quote from: FTMax on January 31, 2016, 01:48:42 PM
Try coconut oil. I have a friend that uses it on her hair, and swears by it.

Second that. Unlike most oils, coconut oil penetrates the hair shaft to some degree. It's the best treatment I've found for my hair when it gets really dry...
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KarynMcD

Quote from: FTMax on January 31, 2016, 01:48:42 PM
Try coconut oil.
Find the liquid one, not the solid. It's easier to use and less gritty.

My girlfriend also likes to use Almond oil.
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RobynD

Another big vote for coconut oil. You can warm the solid stuff as it is cheaper if you want.

not only did my skin dry out with HRT but hair did as well and this was the key. Now i get compliments on my hair.


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Lyric

Back in the '90s when I had elbow-length hair the ends tended to get pretty dry so did frequent oil treatments, but I think what helped the most was using Infusium 23 spray-on leave-in condition after shampooing.

Currently, though, my hair is well below shoulder length and looks amazingly good, I think, by doing as little as possible to it. While our skin needs a bit of cleansing now and then, hair itself doesn't need to be greatly washed unless it's seriously dirty. For the most part hair can be cleaned quite well by a good brushing. I only use a light shampoo about once a month. A couple of times a week in the shower I rub my scalp with baking soda, followed by an apple cider rinse. When I first tried this "no wash" thing I had my doubts, but it works once your skin and hair get used to it.

I believe our society has been thoroughly brainwashed to believe they need to constantly pour pricey potions on their hair to make it look good, when nature does a pretty good job on it's own. I think the biggest cause of hair dryness and other problem are the hair products themselves.

Do you know why most wig makers prefer to use human hair from third world countries? It's not because the hair is cheaper. It's because the people there haven't been ruining their hair with chemical filled shampoos, conditioners and styling products.
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barbie

A hair dresser recommended me to shampoo everyday, even twice per day, because my hair is so much oily. I tend to follow her advice.

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Deborah

Well, today is 25 days since soap last touched my hair.  Even oiling it every evening does not leave it greasy the next day after a water rinse.  And, no critters have yet taken up residence on my head.  LOL


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cheryl reeves

I use suave shampoo and conditioner and my hair is fine..as you can see in my profile pic
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Dena

Using oil on your hair seems to be popular but a word of warning. If you are going to have a perm or color your hair, oiling your hair isn't a good idea. If you have done it, warn the person doing your hair because without proper cleaning, the treatment may not take.
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Deborah

Thank you for that warning.  I have been coloring it myself every few months so the next time I'll watch out for that.


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IdontEven

Dry hair has been my bane. Well, one of them at least :p I just can't find a leave-in conditioner that works well with my hair. It's either so light it doesn't do anything, or it makes my hair sticky and weird.

So far I went from shampooing daily when I had short hair, to every other day, and now I'm down to once a week. And of course as soon as I wash it it takes like 2 days for it to get half way decent again. I might just avoid shampooing completely, I was just worried it might start smelling bad and I'd not notice. I know having long hair captures and lets you disperse a lot of pheremones on demand, but that's another story I guess.

I've been going for like 6+ months between trims too, and over the last two weeks the ends were getting tangled so bad I did a LOT of damage. I just had a trim yesterday and now I can actually run a comb or brush through my hair with ease. It seems counter-intuitive, but I've read over and over again you'll get more length by getting it trimmed regularly, and I guess I had to learn that one the hard way.

I think coconut oil is the next thing I'll try. Good tips in this thread :)
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Deborah

One thing I have noticed the past few weeks after having stopped using shampoo four weeks ago is that I'm having much much less hair breakage than before.  I used to get a fair amount when brushing it.  Now there is virtually none.

I've started washing it once a week with baking soda and rinsing with apple cider vinegar and then rinsing it all out with cold water.  The rest of the week it's just a water rinse in the shower.

I'm not really getting tangles although my hair curls at the bottom of the back.  I wish it was straight.


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