I told my sister today about my cross dressing. At first she was bewildered because she always thought of me as manly, 6'3 220#. But then we talked about Mom and what we have learned since her death. We agree our mom was the source of our coping problem. After a bit she was very supportive and we agreed to open up to one another. I feel so free, like a giant weight lifted off my shoulders. Now just one more obsticle. Going public.