So, I have been on HRT for offically 5 days as of today...My parents however have been less than...well less than nice about it. Today I woke up to my father handing me a piece of paper. Basically, in their mind, transitioning is an adult decision and that if you are under the age of 18 it is wrong to transition. I personally am 19. So my parents, have come and told me I have not tried to talk to them about this, tried to do anything for them, and that I have been completely selfish and self-centered about this whole thing. I have personally on multiple accounts tried to talk to them but they wouldn't listen and won't even come talk on here or even a support group. My father thinks I should have waited an additional 6 months for him to be ready. They don't believe I've known for years, they don't trust me on this. I have felt better since I start HRT but they say that means nothing to them. So basically they think I am demanding them to be okay with this right away, I'm not demanding that at all. So basically now my father is thinking oh well you're making an adult decision so pay me money to help with bills, and I have limited income so I don't really have the money to do HRT and pay him the 100 dollars or so, but he doesn't care. I've tried to be honest with them, but like they have stated out right they don't trust this, they don't believe I'm trans, my parents have stated they will never call me by the name I chose, they have stated they won't use female pronouns for a long while, they think that I should have waited until they were ready, my father thinks he should have forced me to wait 6 months to a year until he was ready...It's basically been a nonstop fight with them, and they think I am disrespecting them and being selfish and immature about transitioning...I was in an argument with my parents today about this 100 dollar payment my father created, and he actually tried to hit me, because I was offended and arguing about it. I don't know what to do about my parents...It hurts to see them reject like this and then say they aren't rejecting. What should I do? What can I do about them?
