i don't know what i am

[Jaydeen]

this is my first post.

hi im Jayden im not saying my age for reasons im biologically female. i came out as genderfluid but that was how i felt for a year and then it stopped now for 1-3 weeks i feel like something else mostly i feel like a male or both so i don't know.
-jay

[Mariah]

Hi Jaydeen, welcome to Susan's. It can come and go like that. How we feel does change and what were dealing with will often come in waves like that. I know that can be frustrating and nerve racking when your not expecting it. Hugs
Mariah

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[Laura_7]

Hello and welcome 

Here are a few hints that could help you :

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,188309.msg1674885.html#msg1674885


I'd say read up .. read a few threads you feel could help you ...

and continue to ask questions .... people are friendly and try to help 


And you might make some friends here:

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,195129.msg1758946.html#msg1758946


*hugs*

[Dena]

Welcome to Susan's Place. It sound like you are in the non binary and the non binary tends to be a mix of male and female. Sometimes you can be non binary and none of the standard labels apply you you need to forget the labels and go with what ever you feel comfortable with. I link you should look at is our Wiki where the common labels are discussed. As for gender fluid, it can move around and lacks a consistent pattern so there are three other links I have that apply to gender fluid. Feel free to ask any questions you might have and I will do my best to answer them.

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,202966.0.html

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,201219.0.html

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,196073.0.html

[GarryLynn]

this is my first post.

hi im Jayden im not saying my age for reasons im biologically female. i came out as genderfluid but that was how i felt for a year and then it stopped now for 1-3 weeks i feel like something else mostly i feel like a male or both so i don't know.
-jay

I've felt like that but opposite. What I did was I went ahead and transitioned to Female, and identified as that but continued to be gender fluid, etc. I still have male clothes and wear the, when I feel like it, but the most important thing is to be yourself