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OMG I've become one of THOSE people

Started by Ms Grace, May 06, 2016, 07:19:07 PM

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Ms Grace

One of the problems with prejudices is when they come back to bite you on the backside once you become the very sort of person you had an "issue" with in the first place.

I wouldn't say it was a "prejudice" as such, just an attitude. Many years ago, when I started using forums - not trans, just hobby, tech support or lifestyle - I'd always notice that there were one or two members on those boards who had well over ten thousand posts and I'd snort to myself, "get a life why don't you?"

Now that is me!!

:D :D :D :'( :'( :'( :embarrassed: :embarrassed: :embarrassed:

Sucked in, me; get a life why don't you!

oh well... lesson learned!! I realise now those people no doubt had as many posts as they did because they either enjoyed their time with the community and/or they felt they contributed something of worth.

When I first signed up to Susan's I don't think I even expected I'd be around for more than 100 or so posts. Yet here I (still) am! The community is, for the most part, always changing - people coming and going with a few stalwarts here to shore up the feeling of continuity (you know who you are!! :D ) - but I do enjoy this community and the support and friendship it provides. And, in the little ego parade that is my mind, I presume I do contribute something of worth some of the time! ;D

So yeah, I've become one of THOSE people!

For those of you who are just starting out on the forum, I know it can seem daunting when you see huge post counts amassed by some members. Just join in with the conversations and the games and before you know it...

I understand why if you can't, but I do hope you stick around and continue to be part of the community!





Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Dena

I wasn't concerned about a high post count but I still have a few weeks until I have been here a year and my post count will cross 5,000. In addition I have spent over 130 DAYS worth of time on the site. If anybody needs to get a life or at least do some house cleaning, it's me.

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Mariah

It happens Ms. Grace. I tried to not pay attention to much to the post counts before becoming a moderator, but sometimes it is hard not to. For new people it can be intimidating and a challenge at first until they become comfortable. We try to do what we can to share the wisdom of our experiences in order help everyone else with the situations they are going hrough in life and with their transitions too. Hugs
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HappyMoni

I don't care what your count is. I appreciate what you write (the three posters above me here). I have found that being on Susan's and sometimes posting helps me keep a lid on my dysphoria. Others, like you, encourage me. I try to return the favor if it is possible. I think everyone here has something to offer.
Moni
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Devlyn

Welcome to the Dark Side, Grace!  :laugh:

Hugs, Devlyn
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stephaniec

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Paige

Quote from: HappyMoni on May 06, 2016, 07:42:15 PM
I don't care what your count is. I appreciate what you write (the three posters above me here). I have found that being on Susan's and sometimes posting helps me keep a lid on my dysphoria. Others, like you, encourage me. I try to return the favor if it is possible. I think everyone here has something to offer.
Moni

I agree with this Grace.  You and the others are doing a great service and we really appreciate all the time and effort you dedicate to Susans.  I know your opinion has helped me on various occasions.

Love you all,
Paige :)
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sparrow

Yes!!!  Now I can formally include you in "you people."  ;)

Thanks for all your hard work, Ms Grace.  You're an asset to the community.  I mean, you're an asset to you people.  Mmmmeh.  I don't think I did that right.  I'll keep trying.
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KathyLauren

All of you mods and people with high post counts are the reason the rest of us find Susan's a helpful place to come to.  You set the tone; you share your experiences; you help newcomers.  A big thank you to all "those people".
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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Jacqueline

Ms Grace,

I think I can say that most of us here are grateful you have become one of the
Quotefew stalwarts here to shore up the feeling of continuity

I agree, it is not the number but the tone and quality of the posts that make the member.

With warmth,

Joanna
1st Therapy: February 2015
First Endo visit & HRT StartJanuary 29, 2016
Jacqueline from Joanna July 18, 2017
Full Time June 1, 2018





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Rafaela

I think it's safe to say that forums like this are heavily influenced by the members themselves, and it must follow that the members who are most 'vocal' and prolific have more influence on the tone. it's good to have you kicking around Senator Grace, and don't abuse your privilege  ;D
Huzzahhh! for 'those people', without you these threads would never make a comfy jacket  ;)
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