Quote from: Jack-the-banana on May 14, 2016, 10:13:54 AMWhere I live, you can start making medical decisions when you're 14, so I could probably take them without telling my parents, but where should I go? Do I absolutely have to go that gender dysphoria clinic or can I just buy them somewhere?
I am so sorry about your predicament. I never had to contend with obstructive parents, so I can only imagine the desperation and frustration you must be feeling.
If I were in your shoes, I would find out exactly what freedom minors DO have to make medical decisions. A lot of that information should be available somewhere online, but various entities might help you to figure this out as well--therapist, family doctor, local LGBT center, or the clinic you mentioned. I suppose you would also need to worry about disclosure issues. You might be able to start blockers before you reach adulthood, but would the health care professional be obligated to notify your parents? It's something to think about.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds as if you are not in the US. In the US, a group called TransYouth Family Allies (which has a nice site) has information that may be US-specific. However, you might be able to ask them to point you in the right direction, perhaps to sister organizations in other countries. You might even find such resources listed on the site.
Even if you cannot take action right this minute, you can find out exactly when you can act, determine what you can do when, and just make a plan. For some people, knowing what they are up against and starting to make plans can ease dysphoria.
ETA: I should also point out that we have a youth board here; you can post queries relating to procedures in your country. Your fellow trans men on Susan's might already have the information you need.
ETA once more: Parents often do come around, but it takes time. I know that Catholics and evangelical Christians are not equivalent, but one of my acquaintances has Catholic parents who shunned him for only a few years. It must have been a long, hard journey for him, but he has a happy ending now. Just hang in there, and know that the people on this site will support you.