My friend is getting married.

[supergirl23]

Hey everyone,
My friend is getting married tomorrow and she was the first person I came out to. Am I still going to be able to talk with her? Since I haven't started my transition yet would it be appropriate to do things together still? Like go out to lunch?


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[Dena]

It depends on what everybody is comfortable with. There is nothing wrong with it but jealously changes the rules between former couples. If your friend and her husband are comfortable with you, then plan on going out together. If they are not, you are best not creating friction in the relationship. It has nothing to do with trans as this is a common problem in CIS couples. 

[supergirl23]

What if I don't really know her husband personally?


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[Dena]

Your friend will know what her husband will accept. Just ask if she is available to visit with you and if so, enjoy yourself.

[Nicole]

Your friendship is with her and not him.

Unless he's a controlling a-hole there shouldn't be a reason why you 2 shouldn't be friends for ever more