I'd make one last tweak on who to tell and to clarify my hunting comment.
Being amnesia chick is fun but I know I've forgotten people some of whom I really would like to have in "my" life as "my" friends. Just because someone knew him before doesn't mean they will even recognise me.
To that end I just reconnected with one of my gamer friends I was with for nearly a decade before I woke up. Naturally she took everything in stride noting major changes in me as person that weren't there before and even helped me remember at least a dozen other people that I want in my life. She also helped to remove my fear of gaming pointing out I put myself in a game for a decade to escape the real world but now I'm happy in the real world it is just a game now. She's a clever girl and very insightful. So I'm going back to WoW and more for a test.
Back on topic though it's nice having no secrets, surprises or fears. Even with boiling the frog you often wonder if you've gone too far and surely someone has to notice but it can be funny and a bit scary at times. After it's all done your life just returns to the mundane fast which is ofc the aim.
I still maintain yous are incredibly strong as I know I couldn't have handled switching. I was that fragile if I saw him in the mirror I could have been lost again so it was me or death.... again. My world though was very small and by the time I made my world bigger I was finished (almost) so everything was dead easy.
As with everything else though it has to be on your terms as and when you decide you are ready.
Surgeries if money was no object there are times I would take everything on offer but most of the time I think "Nah I'm ok". Given my tendency to obsess about things and think them to death I need to remind myself I'm still a teenager in some ways so need to restrain myself at times. Hairline I've thought about a lot recently after I noticed 2 wee triangles I think are probably male-ish and even went as far as researching transplants but my enthusiasm for surgery is usually a knee jerk reaction to if I ever feel lonely or ugly (hello teenager ofc I feel that way at times) so I come back out of it again.
I'm not perfect nor will I ever be in so far as being a covergirl but I can live with that and happy just being ordinary looking. Tall (5'10") but that's the only really distinctive thing about me and being tall is pretty cool tbh. I've always had a thing for tall girls with small breasts and generally slim/athletic build so I'm more than ok with being that way
Until I get rich I have accepted being normal but am understandably jealous of friends I have met that have had substantial work done and OMG gorgeous. Then again I have other friends that were born gorgeous and I'm jealous of them too ofc.
Friends and family have an inbuilt tendency to overlook what could be considered flaws as we do for them without a thought. At times we really need to give ourselves the same privilege.
Get whatever you want because you want it rather than think you need it.
And above all have fun
