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[Joseph]

I want a sex change but i dont think i could do it becuase i think it would upset my parents and i think they would be upset too becuase they wouldnt have any grandkids.

Not getting a sex change is one thing, but getting married and having kids in order to make your parents happy is quite another.  As Kimberly already pointed out, the results could be disasterous.  I am reminded here that I am fortunate that my parents don't care whether I produce any grandkids for them.  Just thinking about what it would involve - going against my sexual preference, having to endure an unwanted pregnancy, and then having to either play a gender role I don't fit or explain my situation to spouse & kids (that I didn't want in the first place).........  that would drive me absolutely insane.  Definitely NOT worth it, no matter who I made happy.

My two cents.
Joseph

[tammygirluk]

thats one thing im not trying to do is supress it or ignore it but i have done in the past but im happy with who i am now.

but as you say iv should look at both sides and i will.

im thinking about it now and i fear making things worse but at the same time it could make things better but its just a case of taking time and thinking whats best for me its not something i can decide easily.

i think my biggest fears are being alone ,not being able to have someone to love & also how others may treat me but i guess thats one of the prices you pay.

i dont like playing the role of a gender that others want you to play.

I tried to shut crossdressing out of my life for a year and i couldnt do it and i wouldnt ever want to do it again.

[Kimberly]

I think you have the right idea Tammy

But know that accepting yourself for who you are and working to make life better for yourself does not mean you will be alone.

The world is made up of all types, some just adore some of the strangest things.

[tammygirluk]

I think im going to work at this and make it work.
im so happy right now. i have my wig and other stuff and iv tried it on and it looks great. it would look better if i had a shave so thats what im going to do and when iv done that after lunch i will take a picture and put it as my avatar.

[tammygirl2]

Hi its tammygirluk here i went to change the email address on my profile and i entered @aol instead of @googlemail.com so i cant validate my new email address becuase i entered the wrong domain for my email address there for i cannot login so i created this id.

here is my picture as promised.
i could only take 2 and they didnt come out to well. when i went to take more my dad walked in to i had to hide in my room and get changed fast.




i managed to get rid of my beard now sometime soon iv got to do something about the rest of my hair.

iv got some waxing stuff im gonna try this week.

Iv also tried my face mask stuff today for cleaning and making the face smoother and it was cool.

Also i had to use the timer on the digi cam to take the photos.

[Bdnewgirl]

looking good ( insert wolf whistle ). like the top one better you had a better smile. but then the bottom has that cute candid smile that looked good to. Loved them both.
Have to get off my lazy tush and get my photo in

Heres looking at you kid
Brandi

[gina_taylor]

Hey Tammy,

I wish you lots of luck with going out fully dressed. You're really coming together. Great looking wig and the attire looks great as well. Keep up the good work

Love Gina