not sure

[vodwuar]

Good Morning everybody.

I am new to this site, i found it while parusing trans articles and my biggest hurtle is trying to find a local therapist who i can talk some things through.

This is alittle odd for me. in the past decade or so since i was a teenager i have always wanted to put on dresses even tho i never have. a few times on my days off when no one was home i tried on girls panties but the fact remains i would want to be a woman. i want society to see me as a woman but im not sure... im kinda confused.

i want to be beautiful and i feel im not as a man.

i tried to join the army at one point and it just made me feel even more of an outcast because i was around all of these strong guys who love what they do and i was that guy who just wasnt quite the same.

i really dont know how to explain it im just ranting and im sure this is writen so poorly that its hard to understand...

i really just need to find a therapist to talk it over and see what might be going on.

[V M]

Hi Vodwuar 

Welcome to Susan's    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

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[Veronica J]

Hi welcome.
Yeah find a therapist best thing to do

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[vodwuar]

any tips on how to find a therapist

[Veronica J]

Well i am in aus and had a great damily doctor. Maybe find the local lbgt group and ask them ..

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[jessicadee]

Hello Vodwuar, nice to meet you. There is so much good info here and the members of this community are very supportive which makes this site a great starting place. I started seeing a therapist just recently. She has been amazing and very insightful. Just be prepared, because some sessions can be very emotionally charged depending on your past history and life events. 

[EmilyMK03]

any tips on how to find a therapist

I guess it depends on where you live?  Do you live in the United States, or Australia, or where?  Lots of people from around the world on these forums...

[vodwuar]

I live in the US. Colorado

[EmilyMK03]

I found my gender therapist through this web site:
https://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/

I used that web site to find my own therapist and found a good match, just 10 min driving distance from my home.    You will also likely want to contact the therapist and/or their practice directly and ask just how much experience they have with transgender clients before scheduling your first appointment.