Quote from: Susan on June 30, 2016, 03:54:10 PM
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Can someone from Susan's please tell me why someone from Susan's contacted my wife by phone today? I have now been outed!!!!!!!!!!
No one here should have your phone number, real name, or any other means to look up said information if you did not provide it to them.
TOS 6 states.
Quote6. You should not give out personal information which may lead to you being identified, or contacted in person, by email or other means. If you chose to do so, then you also accept all accompanying risks. Aliases and the use of alternate identities, social media accounts, and email addresses are strongly encouraged.
I strongly recommend you look over your posts and see if you violated that in any manner. Remember sometimes even small connections can often provide links to your real identity.
If you can provide information showing who called, perhaps something more can be done, in the mean time go talk to and reassure your wife. I am sorry you have to go through this. I have had my own personal experiences with stalkers.
Don't let this happen to you by keeping your trans and real world identities totally separate. Use different emails, user ids, etc. There are some nasty, vicious, and totally immoral people out there, some of whom would just love to try to make this site look bad.
No one from the staff will ever ask you for any personal information. We will not contact you by telephone ever. The only information you are required to provide us is a username and email address. That is it.
You are solely responsible for any other information that you choose to give out.