How long did it take after starting hormones to be gendered correctly?

[xAmyX]

I'm posting here again to let everyone know how my transition has been going since I last posted. At 6 months I began taking Progesterone. I stopped taking it around month 9. I then switched from E pills to E injections. It was a bit tricky convincing my doctor that it was a better move, but with enough determination we both agreed that it would be better for me. My levels have been well within the female range ever since. At the same time I started E Injections, he also put me on Finasteride which I have been taking faithfully every day since then. My results have been very nice, and I do appear and feel a lot more feminine. My voice is still a little deeper than I'd like, but it has mellowed and softened quite a bit, and with enough effort I can get it to pass.

I still feel as though people can tell I'm transgender though if they really wanted, but I'm okay with that. I'm proud to be transgender, and I have nothing to hide, but as I continue to transition it'd be nice to not be the center of attention in conversations and blend in as a normal girl. I'm looking forward to that hopefully within the next year or two. I will not say what the dosages were due to site rules, but if you ask your Endocrinologist about stuff I'm taking that you may not be taking, but are interested in, I'm sure he'll go over the specifics with you and help you come to your conclusion on whether or not it's for you. I like E injections SO much more than the pills. It's nice not having to constantly worry about taking them damned things, and it's far more effective at keeping my levels where I want them to be.

I am now at my 18th month mark.

I've also started cycling Progesterone. I'm on my 2nd cycle right now.

[extraaction]

For me its been hit or miss.  I pass about 70 % but ive only done RX hormones for about a year and a half out of eight.  When I dont pass its because of the emotion im feeling at the time

And remember, some never pass.  Some of the prettiest and nicest transwomen ive met have a linebackers build.

The best lesson ive learned in 8 years is that its better to passas yourself than to pass as something youre trying to be

[Allie24]

As unbelievable as it might sound... after two months "miss" began to come by default... but I also had a good starting point and my body responded extremely well to HRT.

[Artesia]

For me, I feel that it has just started happening.  I still get gendered male, more frequently than female, when talking to people.  Some days are better than others.  At least most of the time nobody questions me about using the women's room.  Met a new CNA today at work, she gendered me correctly, so I'm doing better than I thought.

[Allison S]

If im wearing a wig and makeup people will gender me as trans female. Otherwise i still present as male. Ive wanted to grow my hair for years im now kicking myself for not doing it earlier.

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[sarah1972]

Not there yet. But on thing I noticed: People who do not know me from before are much more likely to get it right. Makeup and clearly female attire helps a lot too.
Then there is the group of people who simply know and have fully switched to female pronouns.

[LadyGreen]

It's really obvious i'm transgender and generally people are more insistant about gendering me male then they ever did when has a shaved head and a beard.

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[FinallyMichelle]

I put 1-2 years because it was at around 30 months that the question seemed to become moot, or ceased to be a question.

However. 

There was no definitive point. Before I even started hormones I was being gendered correctly on the phone. I was working hard at it and even if I could not sustain it for a long time any short conversation they gendered me female. By 8 months on hrt I was getting her and she and could no longer use the men's bathroom but the longer I spent around someone the more you could see the questions in their head. Next week will be 3 years for me and it has been a very long time since anyone had that look on their face. No one sees anything but a girl, not even me. Lol, As critical as I can be of myself, as ugly as I think I am, no matter what the mean mirror says or how harsh the camera can be, it's how ugly I think that girl is that makes me want to crawl into a hole. My neighbor knows, KNOWS because she was told and she said to me last week that she hopes menopause for me is not as bad as it was for her. I have given up on reminding my primary care physician. I hope that you are practicing safe sex, besides STDs, you can still get pregnant even if it's unlikely. I don't see that we have done a pap smear yet, I think we should schedule you one. So the Endocrinologist has had you on testosterone for how long?

Eventually it just snaps into place, or seems to. It's a process, not a line in the sand, just at some point it becomes clear that you are near the end of the process. You get the voice down, but what about the words you use? Inflection? The walk is right but is the posture? The small things fall away so subtly that most of the time I never even noticed. Then one day you go looking for the next thing to improve and you can't find anything.

So it's a very hard question to answer. Are we gendered correctly the first time someone calls you ma'am or when we know someone for a month and they still don't know? For me none of that made a difference, it was when I stopped thinking about it, when I no longer questioned what people were seeing that I was finally gendered correctly. You are a girl Michelle, no one has to think about it so stop worrying. Somewhere around 30 months. 

[Virginia]

My female alter had no problems with people knowing she was a girl from the first time she went out in the world; a year BEFORE I was prescribed a transition level of HRT. This was part of the reason for my misdiagnosis as transsexual. My GT pointed out that I had all of the tell tale physical signs of being transsexual at my first session:
Mother took DES during pregnancy
Androgynous facial structure
Ectromorph build (5' 10" 146 pounds)
Small Adam's apple, hands and feet
Long index finger (2D:4D ratio)
Long arms (high arms span to height ratio)
Typical female angle in the elbows for carrying babies
I even have severe idiopathic scoliosis which is 10X more common in women

[Julia1996]

For me it was about 2 months.  But I was very androgynous before hrt and I got gendered as female most of the time anyway.  I pass completely now. Well among people who didn't know me before transition.

[ToriJo]

I'm at two months HRT - even with the most femme clothes I have, makeup, etc, I have yet to be called ma'am by a stranger.  About a month ago, I stopped getting called sir when dressed, so that's progress I suppose, even if I'm really, really wanting to hear "ma'am".

[Denise]

This was tough to answer.
When I in my female mode (clothing) it was about 50/50
When I was in Guy mode I was 100% guy

Then after about 5 months, I went full time.  Then I would say it would go up about 5% per month so now (8 months later) I get Ma'ma about 95% of the time.  If someone gets it wrong, depending on my mood, I let it go or I correct them.

I just had Breast Augmentation (364 days after starting E - for the second time) and since then, other than on the phone, I don't get Sir'd at all. 

I guess I should have checked 1 year on HRT, 2 years since figuring out I'm trans.

[josie76]

I just had Breast Augmentation (364 days after starting E - for the second time) and since then, other than on the phone, I don't get Sir'd at all. 

I guess I should have checked 1 year on HRT, 2 years since figuring out I'm trans.

Denise, you got BA done? Dang, you are one bad ass chick! I'm going to see where nature takes me still on that one. I keep seeing an orchi or my facial features needing tending to first. 

Well for me it's been mixed. From behind I got mammed right away with fem cut jeans and a zip hoodie with a sock hat on. I got "she" the other week from behind standing at the nurses desk at the hospital checking in for an ESI injection. Then the nurse in front of me corrected the other saying "he's a him". Most places I go, they can tell I'm trans and try to just avoid certain words. Two weeks ago, taking my kid to the doctor though, when leaving the exam room, where up to that point the nurse and Doctor were all super great, the older woman at the check out desk called loadly "sir".
But so far my best has been in the waiting area for physical therapy. One of the male PTs came and got a patient. Know I've known him for a while now. He has a very soft voice and a small build. After they walked back, the one lady sitting there with me leans over and says "I think he's a bit sweet, don't you?" I said "who Ian?". Her reply "yes, don't you think he is 'sweet' ?". I just shrugged. A few seconds later my PT for the day came and called me back by "Josh". Well you should have seen the look in that lady's eyes! That was cool for me. 

[Denise]

Denise, you got BA done? Dang, you are one bad ass chick! I'm going to see where nature takes me still on that one. I keep seeing an orchi or my facial features needing tending to first. 

The intent,  on my doctor's part was FFS first.  But the Gods intervened and insurance approved BA and we're fighting to get FFS covered. (BTW there is another thread on my experience)

I didn't go that big (36c) where I had been wearing a 34b bra on the biggest hocks.  That way when I walked into work post surgery no one would notice.  Lessoned my anxiety of what other people were thinking.  Funny part is they probably think I got "the surgery".  Won't they be surprised when in 2019 I'm out for a month.

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[RobynD]

It was a couple of months here, my dress had changed for years before HRT but it was super femme. Once HRT started and my hair was growing long, the ma'ams started.

[Dani]

Almost 3 years now, but I am a late transitioner. I had been under the influence of Testosterone for over 50 years. There was a lot of damage that needed to be corrected.

[Sophia Sage]

I didn't find hormones to have much impact on being gendered correctly.  It had much more to do with voice and facial hair removal.

[Nora Kayte]

It will depend on you. If you know how to wear clothes correctly and what to wear. And how to do makeup correctly. Even an ugly guy like I still look like could be gendered correctly. But if you don't shave. Wear guys stuff and talk in a low guy tone you might not ever get gendered correctly. I only got gendered correctly once because I was shopping with my wife and the sales lady was not looking up. So toe polish and pink sandals got me gendered correctly once. Then when she saw what she thought was her mistake then she drove that knife deep in my back when she said sorry. So if I lose the weight I need to and get some makeup lessons I think I will be fine. Just have to get thru my little setback I just had. So in one word it presentation.


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[Deborah]

I started getting gendered correctly after about 10 months.  For me all it really took was growing my hair long so after two years being called sir is an extreme rarity.  Clothes don't really matter.  Voice is important though and I do need work there.


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[Angela Drakken]

Iffy topic. I'd been passing since my very first attempts at dressing/presenting female back in my early teen years.
No horomones, or hair removal, just clean shaven, and my makeup skills left.. LOTS to be desired.
(I will admit I was much younger and prettier then..) I just looked like an awkward bookwormish Wednesday Addams type goth girl wandering around.

Sometimes, even 9 months or more in, and after almost 2 years of hair removal, If I'm dressed like a slob, in super baggy, neutral clothes, I still get a 'sir' or whatever else, which comes to a screeching halt when I bark at someone.
The super baggy coveralls at work don't help either.. Especially considering, being as tall as I am, I *should* properly fit into a 40T however the inseams and sleeve length still leave much to be desired, and am forced into a 48T just to actually avoid a frontal wedgie and the flood pants look. (As well as having proper length sleeves.) I guess tall people, male or female, that wear coveralls still have little t-rex arms, and teeny tiny legs.

I'm still in the school that presentation, voice, and hair removal > horomones. Horomones only help my barely clothed image and to soften my face somewhat.