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Do I Look, or Could I Pass as, Female? 6.0

Started by V M, July 01, 2016, 10:09:56 AM

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Confetti

Quote from: Sebby Michelango on July 11, 2016, 04:39:37 PM
Hopes I didn't make you upset. Was just a honest reply meant to help.

ofcourse not! I meant emotional in a good way haha!
I never expected that positive of a response, it means a lot to me  :)
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barbie

Quote from: Confetti on July 11, 2016, 03:01:08 PM

Ii posted this in the fabulous thread too but I wanted some feedback in here too,
I want to come out ASAP but i'm still pre everything and will have the wait for hormones so i'm a little worried about being full time with no hrt  ???

Also the lighting and my cheekbones cast such a badly placed shadow on my face which makes it look like im trying to cover facial hair but I literally can't even grow any on the sides on my face in the places  ???

Based on the photo, you look like a gorgeous woman, or you are.

I also once considered HRT, but gave up.

barbie~~
Just do it.
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Confetti

Quote from: barbie on July 11, 2016, 05:40:23 PM
Based on the photo, you look like a gorgeous woman, or you are.

I also once considered HRT, but gave up.

barbie~~

Thankyou so much Barbie,
, you look amazing in all your photos, you have those good looks you didn't even need it!

xx
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Kitty June

Quote from: Confetti on July 11, 2016, 03:01:08 PM


Ii posted this in the fabulous thread too but I wanted some feedback in here too,
I want to come out ASAP but i'm still pre everything and will have the wait for hormones so i'm a little worried about being full time with no hrt  ???

Also the lighting and my cheekbones cast such a badly placed shadow on my face which makes it look like im trying to cover facial hair but I literally can't even grow any on the sides on my face in the places  ???
I wish I looked as good as you. I'd say you definitely pass. Once you start hormones, no one will ever know. However, I hope you can do it before the slow poison of T effects you.
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Confetti

Quote from: StevieC9 on July 12, 2016, 12:50:19 AM
I wish I looked as good as you. I'd say you definitely pass. Once you start hormones, no one will ever know. However, I hope you can do it before the slow poison of T effects you.

Stevie, I think you look wonderful, Thankyou for always being so kind to me <3

I have always suspected that I have quite a low level of T, i'm going to ask my doctor for some blood work before I book an appointment with the private gender clinic and take the results with me so I guess I'll know in a few months!
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Raye

Quote from: Confetti on July 12, 2016, 12:08:11 PM
Stevie, I think you look wonderful, Thankyou for always being so kind to me <3

I have always suspected that I have quite a low level of T, i'm going to ask my doctor for some blood work before I book an appointment with the private gender clinic and take the results with me so I guess I'll know in a few months!

Possibly low T Levels or something else... HEHEH Don't forget Genetics play a huge role in just about a little of everything! :P HRT will do you well no doubts in my mind! ^^
Hai Der! =^.^=
They/Them
He/Him
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Confetti

Quote from: Raye on July 12, 2016, 12:22:13 PM
Possibly low T Levels or something else... HEHEH Don't forget Genetics play a huge role in just about a little of everything! :P HRT will do you well no doubts in my mind! ^^

I never thought about that!  :laugh: Thanks, Raye!
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Sena


I am pre hormones and all and am 24 so what do you think?
Dont know how visible it is for others but i already have pretty long hair but most of the time its in a ponytail.
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Meera0810

Quote from: Sena on July 14, 2016, 12:12:38 PM

I am pre hormones and all and am 24 so what do you think?
Dont know how visible it is for others but i already have pretty long hair but most of the time its in a ponytail.

Your face looks very feminine to me <3 After some time on HRT, it will get even better, as the fat shifts in more feminine ways. ^_^
No one knows how to be you, better than you.
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Sebby Michelango

Quote from: Sena on July 14, 2016, 12:12:38 PM

I am pre hormones and all and am 24 so what do you think?
Dont know how visible it is for others but i already have pretty long hair but most of the time its in a ponytail.

At HRT you can pass. Now you looks androgynous.
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Confetti



thought i'd show a different angle, been feeling like my face shape is super masculine today, has anyone tried jawline contouring?  ???
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Harley Quinn

Quote from: Confetti on July 15, 2016, 11:38:59 AM


thought i'd show a different angle, been feeling like my face shape is super masculine today, has anyone tried jawline contouring?  ???
You look fine honey... and hormones slim your jaw line some as well. I wouldn't worry about it.
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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Confetti

Quote from: Harley Quinn on July 15, 2016, 12:36:24 PM
You look fine honey... and hormones slim your jaw line some as well. I wouldn't worry about it.

I didn't know they did that too, thankyou!  :D
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Harley Quinn

#113
Sure will... the muscles in your jaw will become less pronounced and your face will get a bit puffier. The combo does wonders.

Case in point



At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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Ange

Hey ! I'd like feedback again. I'm wondering whether or not I pass 100% female in the worst conditions.

Right now my dilemna is as follow :
- Even with boys clothes and no makeup, I get 100% "madam" and 0% "sir". Most friends of friends I encounter says that they would not have guessed. Most people don't seem to guess at all. It seems like I'm passing 100%.
- But I feel personnally - though I like myself - that I'm not read as female some times, especially when I'm in conditions where I'm not at my advantage. (wet hairs, different haircuts, some photo angles, etc.) I'm under the impression that even though I'm read as female, a lot of people give me weird looks. (the ones that says : there's something strange about this woman)

To sum it up, I'm under the impression that even though I pass, I still give a weird feeling, and under some circumstances people can understand that I'm trans.

For these reasons, I'm considering a FFS for peace of mind and to be able to stealth 100% if I want to.

What do you think ? Am I right, or just insecure ?

Here's photos with bare face and hair pulled back. I have a hard time seeing myself as female on those but friends tell me I look just female to them so I'm kinda lost.

Please be 100% frank, kindness will not help me in any way to make my choice ^^


Tell me what your definition of "man" and "woman" is, I'll tell you which I am. Not the other way around.
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EmilyMK03

Yes, you are right.  You should get FFS.  Let me share my own experience.  I also get 100% ma'am, miss, lady, etc.  I also get 0% sir.  Nobody ever questions my gender.  My own biological sister tells me that I pass completely.  She is happy to be seen with me in public, dining out, shopping, whatever.  She tells me that I don't need FFS.  Last weekend I was at a local transgender support group, and a newcomer told me that she thought I was a cis female when she first met me.  Passing is not a problem for me at all.

But I also feel the same way that you do.  There are definitely masculine features still present on my face, and it bothers me.  Like you, I want FFS more for my own peace of mind rather than the ability to pass.  And so, I am scheduled to have FFS next month.  I am going to get my brow bone taken care of, and my adam's apple shaved.  They are both not prominent, but they are still there, and they bother me.

You need to do what will make you happy and give you peace of mind.  It doesn't matter what other people think or how well you pass.  It's about what you need to do for yourself.
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Confetti

Quote from: Ange on August 10, 2016, 07:21:19 PM
Hey ! I'd like feedback again. I'm wondering whether or not I pass 100% female in the worst conditions.

Right now my dilemna is as follow :
- Even with boys clothes and no makeup, I get 100% "madam" and 0% "sir". Most friends of friends I encounter says that they would not have guessed. Most people don't seem to guess at all. It seems like I'm passing 100%.
- But I feel personnally - though I like myself - that I'm not read as female some times, especially when I'm in conditions where I'm not at my advantage. (wet hairs, different haircuts, some photo angles, etc.) I'm under the impression that even though I'm read as female, a lot of people give me weird looks. (the ones that says : there's something strange about this woman)

To sum it up, I'm under the impression that even though I pass, I still give a weird feeling, and under some circumstances people can understand that I'm trans.

For these reasons, I'm considering a FFS for peace of mind and to be able to stealth 100% if I want to.

What do you think ? Am I right, or just insecure ?

Here's photos with bare face and hair pulled back. I have a hard time seeing myself as female on those but friends tell me I look just female to them so I'm kinda lost.

Please be 100% frank, kindness will not help me in any way to make my choice ^^

I think you have quite a feminine look to you! I would definitely suggest seeing to your eyebrows though and having them neatened up and shaped a little, this will work wonders!
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Karlie Ann

Your current situation is not your final destination.
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Sebby Michelango

Quote from: Ange on August 10, 2016, 07:21:19 PM
Hey ! I'd like feedback again. I'm wondering whether or not I pass 100% female in the worst conditions.

Right now my dilemna is as follow :
- Even with boys clothes and no makeup, I get 100% "madam" and 0% "sir". Most friends of friends I encounter says that they would not have guessed. Most people don't seem to guess at all. It seems like I'm passing 100%.
- But I feel personnally - though I like myself - that I'm not read as female some times, especially when I'm in conditions where I'm not at my advantage. (wet hairs, different haircuts, some photo angles, etc.) I'm under the impression that even though I'm read as female, a lot of people give me weird looks. (the ones that says : there's something strange about this woman)

To sum it up, I'm under the impression that even though I pass, I still give a weird feeling, and under some circumstances people can understand that I'm trans.

For these reasons, I'm considering a FFS for peace of mind and to be able to stealth 100% if I want to.

What do you think ? Am I right, or just insecure ?

Here's photos with bare face and hair pulled back. I have a hard time seeing myself as female on those but friends tell me I look just female to them so I'm kinda lost.

Please be 100% frank, kindness will not help me in any way to make my choice ^^



You looks difference at these pictures than earlier pictures you have posted. In the earlier pictures you looked more androgynous. You have still some androgynous facial features, but there are some masculine features that makes passing harder. You have a Adam's apple and a big nose tip that make you appear more masculine. If you want to appear more feminine grooming your eyebrow might help a bit. Considering FFS isn't a stupid idea. Fixing the Adam's apple and the nose tip sounds like a smart idea if you want to be 100% stealth and passable. Sometimes strangers might "ma'am" you because they knows you would like it, not because they thinks you're cis. I have ma'amed some trans women and sir'ed some trans guy even they doesn't pass as cis to be polite. If you pass or not depends which angle people sees you from, clothing, hair etc. Your androgynous features have helped you a lot, but the features you have now isn't enough if you want to be 110% stealth.
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EmilyMK03

Quote from: Karlie Ann on August 10, 2016, 09:11:01 PM
Recently...making progress, I think.

You don't pass yet, but yes, you are definitely making progress!  Your new glasses really help a lot (compared to the glasses you are wearing in your profile photo).  If you could do something to your hair to give it more volume at the top, it would help balance out your face.
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