First, please pick a thread and stay with it. It's far easer for an old person like me to keep up with you.
You were born the way you are but because of your age, most likely the only hormone treatment you might receive would be blockers. Estrogen would have to wait until your older. Under the best conditions, you might be allowed to move into the feminine role in day to day life. This will depend on receiving the correct therapy and a knowledgable Endo. The big problem will be your parents and you will need to educate them. I am providing a link which is something I wrote that might help. Other than that, your parents may join the site and post in the Significant Others section asking question and learning about your condition. The SO section offers them special protection as attacks on them are not permitted and they are permitted to be upset without the normal restrictions we place on regular members.
Unfortunately, if you parents chose to ignore this and you don't have assistance through school, there will be very little you can do until you turn 18. You will need to resist any attempts to give you testosterone because it will make you feel far worst than you do now.
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