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Started by Darlig Ulv, July 04, 2016, 02:32:14 AM

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Darlig Ulv

Well, it was very hard but I finally got up the courage (with some help from alcohol, lol) to tell my mom that I'm transgender and that I was thinking of transitioning. It took a bit to actually explain to her what being transgender was and it went pretty well. She said that she just wants me happy and to do whatever I want to make that possible. Tho, now I just worry about my dad. I was very close to him growing up and he's a bit religious being against same sex marriage and all that. He lives several states away so I might end up telling him when there's noticeable changes whenever I see him next.
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KathyLauren

Congratulations on taking that huge step!  I am glad for you that your mother is understanding.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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AnxietyDisord3r

Is your avatar Asuka from EVA?
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kaitylynn

Congratulations on taking a huge step in to a wider world!
Katherine Lynn M.

You've got a light that always guides you.
You speak of hope and change as something good.
Live your truth and know you're not alone.

The restart - 20-Oct-2015
Legal name and gender change affirmed - 27-Sep-2016
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Darlig Ulv

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alex82

Quote from: Darlig Ulv on July 04, 2016, 02:32:14 AM
Well, it was very hard but I finally got up the courage (with some help from alcohol, lol) to tell my mom that I'm transgender and that I was thinking of transitioning. It took a bit to actually explain to her what being transgender was and it went pretty well. She said that she just wants me happy and to do whatever I want to make that possible. Tho, now I just worry about my dad. I was very close to him growing up and he's a bit religious being against same sex marriage and all that. He lives several states away so I might end up telling him when there's noticeable changes whenever I see him next.

Contratulations.

Hardest conversation I've ever had in my life, and I've had a few. It felt like the parent child dynamic was totally switched, and your mothers happiness is in your hands - and I've had that too, but never to this extent. Not comfortable. Very well done, so pleased your mother is dealing with it.

I know my mother isn't, whatever she says - I spoke to her this morning, and I could tell in her voice that her holiday that she goes on today was shattered. I wouldn't be happy if it was my child. I wouldn't even be thrilled with my child being gay, let alone this, because you just want your loved ones to sail through life without the difficulties.
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Willowicious

Congratulations! I hope it goes well with you father ^_^ (And yay, another NGE fan! :3)


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