so frustrated !!!!!

[ToniB]

i have been living full time as a woman now for over a year and I am getting so Frustrated with My Wife .I have made a good friend at work and We have started going out on a Friday afternoon for a girly time coffee, shopping having a laugh but My wife is getting funny about it My friend did not know me pre transition so only sees Me as another Woman (We first met in the Ladies toilet at work LOL) .My wife thinks she is making a play for me and that's silly .I told her about our afternoons are purely Girly time but she wont see it and she admitted that she cannot or "won't" see me as Female she still sees me as her Husband no matter what I wear .I tried to explain to her that being as I am it would in fact be even odder if I went out with Males she would actually have more to worry about if that happens as I have never had a Male friend that I went about with ever LOL I do not understand them .Have any off You any advice about how to help this situation .I am going to give the Wife my Friends Tel No so she can meet her and hopefully accept her

[JoanneB]

A fun thought experiment.....
Turn the cards and say Friday after work you're going out with.... one of the guys    I wonder how she'll feel then?

Sadly, your wife does not sound supportive or is in a great deal of denial about you. Or, perhaps she feels that "If you aren't getting any at home...."?

Overall, sounds like a No-Win situation for you.