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Started by Laura Smith, July 07, 2016, 02:38:25 PM

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How important is "passing" to you personally?

Very, absolutely important - life or death
30 (50%)
Fairly important
20 (33.3%)
Not worried either way :)
6 (10%)
Only concerns me occasionally
4 (6.7%)
Doesn't concern me one iota
0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 60

Harley Quinn

It's somewhere between absolutely important and fairly important; not life and death... that's way out there... 
At what point did my life go Looney Tunes? How did it happen? Who's to blame?... Batman, that's who. Batman! It's always been Batman! Ruining my life, spoiling my fun! >:-)
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Michelle_P

I wish I could say it's not important, but...  Well, it's a survival trait.  Given the current popularity of Trans-bashing, and the self-appointed Guardians of the Restroom (Yes, even in San Francisco.  After the TransMarch ended, there were a couple of these jerks 'stationed' outside the women's restroom at a mall near the end of the March!), being able to move around in public without being readily clocked is a safety issue.

I hope things change.  I really do.  Meanwhile, I have to be really careful and aware of my surroundings.  Fortunately old men and old women share a good bit in their facial characteristics.  :/
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big kim

Rat's ass not given about passing. Passing, probably not (6' +, big build, sound like Lemmy). Accepted 99% of time matters more to me.
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kelly_aus

The less of a crap I give about passing, the happier I am..

That said, in 6 years, I've had bathroom issues twice - and both backfired on the person who made the noise. That said, I have no idea if I pass.. And frankly, don't care. I'm accepted as who I am.
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